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Old 03-08-2013, 11:15 PM
 
Location: Newport Beach, California
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I am VERY curious to see a picture of a real time Trophy wife. I grew up in Newport Beach, I see rich people all the time, their wives are ugly, average looking, drop dead gorgeous, just like everybody else's wives. No exceptions to the rules.

I honestly believe this whole women are gold diggers, men are all pigs only care about appearences is an outdated, delusional big huge myth!
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Old 03-08-2013, 11:30 PM
 
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I am VERY curious to see a picture of a real time Trophy wife. I grew up in Newport Beach, I see rich people all the time, their wives are ugly, average looking, drop dead gorgeous, just like everybody else's wives. No exceptions to the rules.

I honestly believe this whole women are gold diggers, men are all pigs only care about appearences is an outdated, delusional big huge myth!
It's an over-exaggeration in regards to non-celebrity people. It's kind of like the boogeyman.
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Old 03-08-2013, 11:49 PM
 
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I am VERY curious to see a picture of a real time Trophy wife. I grew up in Newport Beach, I see rich people all the time, their wives are ugly, average looking, drop dead gorgeous, just like everybody else's wives. No exceptions to the rules.

I honestly believe this whole women are gold diggers, men are all pigs only care about appearences is an outdated, delusional big huge myth!
I always thought it was one of those ideas that was invented by Hollywood, but everyone assumed it was real, because it was such a common theme in so many movies and HAD to be real.

I feel like if these women exist, they must be hiding at home all day.

Then again one person's "gorgeous" is another's "ugly." There are plenty of supermodels that are worshipped around the world that I think look like aliens.
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Old 03-08-2013, 11:57 PM
 
Location: Newport Beach, California
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I always thought it was one of those ideas that was invented by Hollywood, but everyone assumed it was real, because it was such a common theme in so many movies and HAD to be real.

I feel like if these women exist, they must be hiding at home all day.

Then again one person's "gorgeous" is another's "ugly." There are plenty of supermodels that are worshipped around the world that I think look like aliens.
That is exactly why I want to see a photo of a trophy wife, so we will all know what she has and we don't. LOL
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Old 03-08-2013, 11:58 PM
 
Location: Newport Beach, California
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It's an over-exaggeration in regards to non-celebrity people. It's kind of like the boogeyman.
Exactly!!!
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Old 03-09-2013, 12:27 AM
 
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Well, I would never be ok with a man that flat out didn't take care of himself, never went to the gym or was active outdoors, or ate fast food every day. I'm referring to small things like the fact that I don't care if he might have a small tummy because of his slow metabolism or if his eye color does not interest me remotely or if he doesn't have perfect teeth or if his nose is a bit large. I'm fine with a man being completely average looking, even a tiny bit unattractive in the sense that God hit him with the ugly stick (and it wasn't his own doing).

All of that is fine, as long as he is ambitious, intelligent, hard-working, and makes more money than I do.
The making more money is a non issue with me but I do want a hard worker as I am a hard worker. However if he expects me to stay in shape I will expect the same of him. I have known men who expected their wives to be in perfect shape while they weren't. This doesn't work for me. He's only allowed to have a small tummy if he allows me to have one.
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Old 03-09-2013, 12:40 AM
 
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The making more money is a non issue with me but I do want a hard worker as I am a hard worker. However if he expects me to stay in shape I will expect the same of him. I have known men who expected their wives to be in perfect shape while they weren't. This doesn't work for me. He's only allowed to have a small tummy if he allows me to have one.
Lol I would never allow myself to have a small tummy (even if it was genetically possible), but then again my #1 priority is my appearance, and then everything else, including my success.
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Old 03-09-2013, 12:47 AM
 
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Lol I would never allow myself to have a small tummy (even if it was genetically possible), but then again my #1 priority is my appearance, and then everything else, including my success.
I'm different because I am not seeking a man based on my appearance. A man like that would just get bored of me when I got older.
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Old 03-09-2013, 12:52 AM
 
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I'm different because I am not seeking a man based on my appearance. A man like that would just get bored of me when I got older.
You mean when your looks will inevitably start to slip?
That's why I avoid the sun like it will melt my skin, stopped drinking alcohol, don't smoke, have an incredibly restricted diet, work out regularly, and am considering plastic surgery for the future. I think most women would consider me insane though
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Old 03-09-2013, 01:03 AM
 
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All looks fade, even plastic surgery won't help. That's why I want a man who loves me for more than my looks. I mean say I got disfigured in an accident I want him to stick by me.
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