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Old 03-18-2013, 01:35 PM
 
Location: Glasgow, uk
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Yeah exactly. I don't like sports period. Does that mean that guys who like sports should reject me? Of course not and that never happens. They just go do their guy stuff, while I do my girl stuff.

I agree. If i was in the house with him I'd sit with him and just read a book or something. Theres not enough good guys left i certainly wouldnt reject one based on a few films lol

 
Old 03-18-2013, 01:36 PM
 
Location: Pa
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lol I'm clearly not up to date with the world of dating I'm dreading starting!!
It's a fun, exciting, thrilling, boring, downer of disapointments yet to see it as adventure and learning process. Many make great stories to tell others.
 
Old 03-18-2013, 01:36 PM
 
Location: Texas
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I really, really hope the OP doesn't kidnap and butcher this poor girl in his parent's basement, because that's where it sounds like this unhealthy obsession is heading. Creep, creep, creeper alert!
 
Old 03-18-2013, 01:37 PM
 
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Of course !! It is totally acceptable for a woman to reject a man based on his looks.

It is, however, NOT Okay for a man to do that to a woman because it makes him shallow, immature, and every other negative adjective you can find to describe him.

That is the way it is in this country now.
 
Old 03-18-2013, 01:40 PM
 
Location: Glasgow, uk
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I really, really hope the OP doesn't kidnap and butcher this poor girl in his parent's basement, because that's where it sounds like this unhealthy obsession is heading. Creep, creep, creeper alert!

what is a creeper? we dont say that over here
 
Old 03-18-2013, 01:46 PM
 
Location: Texas
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what is a creeper? we dont say that over here
A guy with no awareness to social boundaries and etiquette in regards to females and/or a guy who simply doesn't care.

It is the ultimate shaming word a woman can throw at a guy. It is that powerful and for good reason.
 
Old 03-18-2013, 01:50 PM
 
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It's very fair. Very very very. Because if you're not attracted to someone, anything is a reason for breaking up with them or rejecting them. "Oh you sneeze too loud. It's over." "Your shirt's too tight. It's over" "Your nose is too flat. I'm not interested. Sorry!" Anything is a reason if you aren't really into that person. Just how it is.
 
Old 03-18-2013, 01:50 PM
 
Location: Glasgow, uk
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A guy with no awareness to social boundaries and etiquette in regards to females and/or a guy who simply doesn't care.

It is the ultimate shaming word a woman can throw at a guy. It is that powerful and for good reason.

interesting
 
Old 03-18-2013, 01:52 PM
 
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I really, really hope the OP doesn't kidnap and butcher this poor girl in his parent's basement, because that's where it sounds like this unhealthy obsession is heading. Creep, creep, creeper alert!
Has this guy posted about this girl before? Has she rejected him and he hasn't gotten over it years later? I'm confused? But from your post he sounds like a familiar thread starter here....
 
Old 03-18-2013, 01:56 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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That is what the girl from my HS should recognize.
Look, kid. If she's being superficial, and not giving guys with with a good personality a chance, then she's not the girl for you, is she? She's not the person you thought she was. Right? You've projected so much onto her ("she's a lady", etc.), but she's not living up to your expectations. You can't argue with that, it's a fact, or you wouldn't be posting this thread. So, move on. Find someone who isn't so superficial.

And to answer your question (again), "fair" is irrelevant. It's about how one deals with reality. Everyone faces this in life. Most don't get caught up in the unfairness of it. They let a rejection roll off their back, and move on. Eventually, most find someone who loves them for who they are. The more you fixate on this girl, the longer you're putting off finding someone who's right for you.
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