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Old 01-20-2015, 08:28 PM
 
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Hello.
I'm 21 woman and I'm interested in a 36yo guy. I was searching for my surname on facebook, as it is very uncommom so I thought it was cool to find more people with it. So added him just by mere curiosity. We shared some stories abt our family background and never really spoke again. He was married during that time and I was very young so there was no romantic interest.

Then he divorced, its been 1 year and a half now. I noticed that and checked his profile again, so to see that he is a very educated guy, has travelled a lot, has his own business, love animals, and he's very popular among his friends. Not to mention that he's also very handsome.

My question is: I'm not as half as interesting as he. I dont have the self steem to talk to such person without being a weirdo. I have no idea how to approach such person, he's had so many amazing life experiences that it must be boring to talk with a young university girl. Even though I have already dated, this one guy in particular frightens me.

Not to mention that we're facebook friends for such a long time but spoke only once. He must think that its weird that I chose to speak again.

I found his badoo profile and it says that he's interested in 18-23yo girls. Thats my only advantage, along with the fact that I'm a airplane pilot student (I know that it's an interesting thing for you guys lol but still, I cant be like "hey lets talk abt airplanes")
Any ideas, guys out there?
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Old 01-20-2015, 08:31 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Our favorite aviation student returns.
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Old 01-20-2015, 09:14 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Oh good lord.He sounds like a perve, probably why he is getting a divorce.
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Old 01-21-2015, 07:47 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Oh good lord.He sounds like a perve, probably why he is getting a divorce.
Thanks, Rae. You just made feel like a perv, Lol
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Old 01-21-2015, 07:59 PM
 
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I'm surprised people aren't asking if you have issues because you want to talk to an older man on Facebook.
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Old 01-21-2015, 08:01 PM
 
Location: Nashville, TN -
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Oh good lord.He sounds like a perve, probably why he is getting a divorce.
What I don't get is why men who have an interest in 18-23 year old girls (or around that age) get married in the first place. Unless they believe their wives will remain forever 20-something, they should stay single and date happily every after.
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Old 01-21-2015, 08:07 PM
 
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If nobody's willing to help and give a concrete answer, then you can keep your opinions to yourself, as I'm not asking for them.
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Old 01-21-2015, 08:12 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Thanks, Rae. You just made feel like a perv, Lol
Stop checking out children then.
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What I don't get is why men who have an interest in 18-23 year old girls (or around that age) get married in the first place. Unless they believe their wives will remain forever 20-something, they should stay single and date happily every after.
Pretty much but they don't. They find the next young hot thing.Father's hide your daughters!
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Old 01-21-2015, 08:12 PM
 
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If nobody's willing to help and give a concrete answer, then you can keep your opinions to yourself, as I'm not asking for them.
Ok...

Carry on
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Old 01-21-2015, 09:14 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Uh he is a pervert! 36 year old going after an 18-23 yr is sick.
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