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Old 04-25-2013, 06:37 PM
 
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Is it a man's business to ask though? I'd assume that you would find the answers to these bit-by-bit over time...
That is correct. Some of it you might be able to observe and deduce on your own when you are in her presence.

That reminds me of one time when I had a guy ask me right away "So you were married before, or did you have kids without being married?" Never understood what he was getting at by asking me that.
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Old 04-25-2013, 06:42 PM
 
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That is correct. Some of it you might be able to observe and deduce on your own when you are in her presence.

That reminds me of one time when I had a guy ask me right away "So you were married before, or did you have kids without being married?" Never understood what he was getting at by asking me that.
He was probably asking if your children were planned.

It's not exactly a sign of genius to have unplanned children.
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Old 04-25-2013, 06:47 PM
 
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He was probably asking if your children were planned.

It's not exactly a sign of genius to have unplanned children.
So if I had had unplanned children, he would be afraid that I would do that with him?
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Old 04-25-2013, 06:50 PM
 
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So if I had had unplanned children, he would be afraid that I would do that with him?
Precisely. Not every man would be THRILLED to hear that you are pregnant due to the fact that one of you forgot to use contraception.
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Old 04-25-2013, 06:53 PM
 
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Precisely. Not every man would be THRILLED to hear that you are pregnant due to the fact that one of you forgot to use contraception.

Gosh, I had just met the guy though. Why was he already thinking about sex and possible pregnancy?
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Old 04-25-2013, 06:55 PM
 
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Gosh, I had just met the guy though. Why was he already thinking about sex and possible pregnancy?

Off topic, but we always think about sex. Not so much the pregnancy part, though.
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Old 04-25-2013, 06:58 PM
 
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Gosh, I had just met the guy though. Why was he already thinking about sex and possible pregnancy?
...because thinking about pregnancy and other risks doesn't happen in the heat of passion. That's why some of us would rather know now compared to later.
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Old 04-25-2013, 06:59 PM
 
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Off topic, but we always think about sex. Not so much the pregnancy part, though.
Not always.
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Old 04-25-2013, 06:59 PM
 
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Bonus: The ex-husband may be paying alimony and child support for your new family.
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Old 04-25-2013, 07:01 PM
 
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Off topic, but we always think about sex. Not so much the pregnancy part, though.
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Bonus: The ex-husband may be paying alimony and child support for your new family.
That's just a bonus though. I am the child of a man that didn't.
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