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I'm bisexual and came out senior year of college at age 22. Since then I have dated mostly guys. It's just wrong to not be honest about who you are. I just accepted the fact that I will most likely have to choose to just be with a guy cause no women aint havin that! Most bi guys I know are in the closet though and are living complete lies.
Ive said it before and ill say it again here. Ill really drill it into your head here only because im a bisexual myself. LIE! We live in a world today of fake people. They pretend that they are so 'progressive' and yet behind your back...You just experienced it on your date here and it even will affect your professional and personal life as well. Get with whom ever you want to be with and lie to them about your background. Especailly if its a woman!
What the heck? I can only think of one bi guy I ever met who ended up with a man. All the rest are with women.
Not in my world. But then again, I run in pretty liberal circles, in which there is less of a need to hide. Personally, I've never seen a man who claimed bisexuality when he first came out who did not later self-identify as gay and end up with a man.
While I don't doubt that bisexuality is a real and true orientation, there are plenty of men out there who self-identify as bi when they are really gay or identify as straight and are either gay or bi and see men on the DL. Plenty of reasons for this, including understanding and coming to terms with their sexuality, grappling with society's homophobia and even their own homophobia, and struggling with wanting children and family when by and large, homosexuals still face a lot of hurdles in those areas.
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Originally Posted by RumNCoke
Ive said it before and ill say it again here. Ill really drill it into your head here only because im a bisexual myself. LIE! We live in a world today of fake people. They pretend that they are so 'progressive' and yet behind your back...You just experienced it on your date here and it even will affect your professional and personal life as well. Get with whom ever you want to be with and lie to them about your background. Especailly if its a woman!
I consider myself open minded and very accepting of other's choices, but I think I have the right to be less open minded when it comes to who I date. I would never date a bi guy. And to not disclose that is lying. The other person will find out eventually and if they weren't going to dump you before, then they'll definitely dump you for being a liar.
This topic really brings out the Hypocracy of self identified "Open minded" people. If I said the same thing about Bisexual women I would be crucified by some of the same women that refuse to date Bisexual men.
Is it possible some of these women are making assumptions about you engaging in high risk sexual behavior (ie, barebacking), and are backing off due to concerns they may have about safety?
Is it possible some of these women are making assumptions about you engaging in high risk sexual behavior (ie, barebacking), and are backing off due to concerns they may have about safety?
Very true. If I was in that situation, that would be my first thought
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