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If a man can not compete for females it makes him appear to be a low status-male. Secondly prostitution brings out the truth of female nature. Married/relationships are advance forms of prostitution that women will never admit is true.
With that said, it's better to use escorts. Women's desire for high status males is so crazy to the point it's not worth being with females beyond having sex.
I would want everything checked out. And to be honest it does have a bad stigma to it.
But good for you telling the truth. Many I would think would keep that under wraps.
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Originally Posted by monemi
Same discussion I've had with other partners. I would want him tested and would use 2 forms of birth control.
I don't have any moral issues with prostitution.
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Originally Posted by brocco
i doubt any man i'd be interested in would have to resort to a prostitute, but i have done some not-so-classy things in my past, too, so i don't think by itself it would be a dealbreaker. i'd prefer if he didn't tell me. as long as he's clean etc thats all i need to know about his sexual past
How about liberty in a foreign country after a combat tour/rotation?
Or just being young and drunk?
Gives a whole meaning to "Don't ask don't tell". One of my neighbors sons broadcasted him and his buddies trip to a brothel when he was stationed overseas on Facebook. Good move
I didn't mean say that to a one-night stand. I mean someone you might have an LTR with.
If the topic comes up, and you are asked? sure, tell her the truth, by then I highly doubt it would be a deal breaker. But I wouldn't be so forthcoming in telling her about my past sexual escapades. And you surely don't want to hear any of hers.
It's a cotton swab test at your hospital. It doesn't take long. My ex and I got it done.
Oh I know, I've had it done 3 or 4x... It's not really about the length, it's about how bad it hurts and the general inconvenience. And then there's the general trust issue as well that you are basically telling the other person that you don't believe he has practiced safe sex. Or that he has been tested since he last slept with anyone...
It really depends on the circumstance but I don't believe it's necessary in every scenario, and just making sure that if she requires him to get tested, she does the same.
So you require every person you date or sleep with to get tested beforehand? Do you make him show you the tests?
Do you also get tested immediately before every person you date and show him the results?
And no, going to the gyno once a year isn't enough (according to what you are implying)
Yes. I didn't stop getting tested until I'd been in a relationship for over a year. I've never caught an STI and the very idea of catching one freaks me out. Yes, I wanted my partners tested and I thought it was just as important that I had been tested myself.
Even if you've only had one partner and they've only had one partner before you, who was the person they slept with? And who did they sleep with? And so on down through the line. Hell yes, you want to check to see nothing has been passed along from upstream.
Oh I know, I've had it done 3 or 4x... It's not really about the length, it's about how bad it hurts and the general inconvenience. And then there's the general trust issue as well that you are basically telling the other person that you don't believe he has practiced safe sex. Or that he has been tested since he last slept with anyone...
It really depends on the circumstance but I don't believe it's necessary in every scenario, and just making sure that if she requires him to get tested, she does the same.
Condoms don't protect you from every STD. This doesn't mean I think he didn't use condoms. This means I want to be safe.
Can't speak for women, but if I was with a woman who told me she had sex with a male prostitute, I would consider it a mistake but determine what to do next based on how she viewed the incident. That's much more important. If every woman judged me by my past (which is F'ed up to say the least, and not due to anything in the realm of sexual activity), I'd be single for life. But my mentality is a far cry from what it used to be, and my wife knows that's why she married me.
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