When you find out a guy has slept with a prostitute in the past.. (men, younger)

[NilaJones]

Originally Posted by Vic 2.0

Just to clarify:
By this, do you mean lying to you about it or just not volunteering the information?

Either one.

Keeping something a secret that he believes would bother me -- that is not something I stick around for.

[freemkt]

Originally Posted by Raena77

Oh ok in that case Don't do it! Lol

C'mon if I can get a guy, you can get a girl. Stop going after models. Lol j/k.

I think there is a basic inequality which makes the above assertion an unfounded commonly accepted fallacy.

In general, men have to act or do, while in general women merely have to be somewhere in public where there are men.

[freemkt]

Originally Posted by franklin_mac

^Models? I'm the one who liked 19-year-olds, remember?

And Raenas. I also like Raenas.

they are hard to find, therefore they are worth more.

[Vic 2.0]

Originally Posted by NilaJones

Either one.

Keeping something a secret that he believes would bother me -- that is not something I stick around for.

I understand, generally speaking. But as puritanical as I've been accused of being on these boards, I don't believe even I would be all that upset if I found out my wife had paid for sex or had a one night stand, etc. in her distant past. So long as I know she considers this behavior wrong today, nothing else matters. But again, I have no room to talk in terms of past mistakes worth being ashamed of *shrugs*

I wouldn't expect someone to volunteer something like that, either. What good could come from it? I fell in love with the woman my wife has become, not who she used to be. From what she has told me over the years as we've discussed specific topics, I probably woudn't have gotten with her either if she had've told me everything at once. Not that her mistakes are all that exceptional (and they're not all sex-related either), just that all of it taken together would've given me the wrong impression and I wouldn't have given her a chance. And I would've missed out on five great years with her.

[highlife2]

I have strongly considered prostitution when my first wife and second wife left. Its just really hard for me to find women, why would that be a deal breaker unless the woman in question has NEVER had a ONS or a FWB ever.

[monemi]

Originally Posted by highlife2

I have strongly considered prostitution when my first wife and second wife left. Its just really hard for me to find women, why would that be a deal breaker unless the woman in question has NEVER had a ONS or a FWB ever.

Some women have never had a ONS or a FWB. I'm not one of them. But some haven't.

[franklin_mac]

Originally Posted by freemkt

they are hard to find, therefore they are worth more.

19-year-olds or Raenas?

[70Ford]

Originally Posted by findly185

Depends on why he slept with said prostitute.

Majority of the time the deal breaker would be...
~Sex addict
~Couldn't get laid otherwise
~Virgin later in life
~Intimacy issues
~Strange fetish


...you get the idea.

Does jumping out of a closet while wearing a red Devil suit and shouting, "Call me Bruce!" count?

[monemi]

Originally Posted by 70Ford

Does jumping out of a closet while wearing a red Devil suit and shouting, "Call me Bruce!" count?

I'm Batman - YouTube

This ^^ would be better than "Call me Bruce!"

[highlife2]

Originally Posted by monemi

Some women have never had a ONS or a FWB. I'm not one of them. But some haven't.

Hiring a prostitute is no different from having a ONS or a FWB. I dont know why there is a stigma.