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So if your partner is not putting out you should instantly abandon her. For shame.
Perhaps - here is a novel idea - the guy cares deeply about her and he knows that a sudden drop in sexual interest can be cause for anything from medical to psychological concern - that the person he cares about might need help - be sick - or something else awful.
But rather than consider helping her you just want to kick her out the door and send her on her way because the sex is not pleasing enough.
Yep!!
That's what I think everyone is trying to say.
I, however, did not.
Remember it's a selfish world and when people don't get it their way they are outta there!!!
Personally, I think the OP is a "Wham Bam thank you Mam.." guy. He gets his rocks off and claims their sex is great while she is unsatisfied. She, however, doesn't know how to tell him that him grunting on top of her with his head in the pillow till he is done does nothing for her.
Shoot...I haven't sex since 2005. And I'm 36 with a high sex drive. Sex once a week would be a freaking miracle for me lol. I have almost 0% luck when it comes to attracting women,and i'm really not a bad looking guy. You can check out my profile picture and see.
Dude, you have to smile more.
Your profile looks like you will kill me.
Just a little hint if you want to meet the ladies.
Surprisingly, most women are more into your personality than your shape. As long as you are not obese or unemployed you should be fine.
My instant thought is that you have a lot to learn about being a lover. Trust me. I realize you will have a difficult time accepting what I've posted, but, that's it. Only 8 months? And you think the honeymoon phase is over? You are a long way from when 4 times a week would be rare. The average for age 40 something couples married 10 years is 3 times a week. How many books have you studied about being a really good lover? Are you one of those who thinks you were born knowing? A woman once told me her husband didn't even know where her clitoris was located. He was 42 and newly married. I suggested she tell him, but, she said she couldn't because it would hurt his feelings.
Are you prepared to spent 45 minutes or an hour in foreplay? If not, why not? With most devoted to HER? Yours is later. Are you squeaky clean? Front, back and sideways? If the sex was good for a few months, it may have been one-sided. She may have been pretending with the hope you would eventually get it right.
My instant thought is that you have a lot to learn about being a lover. Trust me. I realize you will have a difficult time accepting what I've posted, but, that's it. Only 8 months? And you think the honeymoon phase is over? You are a long way from when 4 times a week would be rare. The average for age 40 something couples married 10 years is 3 times a week. How many books have you studied about being a really good lover? Are you one of those who thinks you were born knowing? A woman once told me her husband didn't even know where her clitoris was located. He was 42 and newly married. I suggested she tell him, but, she said she couldn't because it would hurt his feelings.
Are you prepared to spent 45 minutes or an hour in foreplay? If not, why not? With most devoted to HER? Yours is later. Are you squeaky clean? Front, back and sideways? If the sex was good for a few months, it may have been one-sided. She may have been pretending with the hope you would eventually get it right.
Why should he cater to her? Why doesn't she cater to his desires and needs for once? Why is the man always expected to cater to the womans sexual desires but not the other way around? This isn't a case of him being a bad lover because if it was, she needs to tell him instead of being passive aggressive.
Just a little hint if you want to meet the ladies.
Surprisingly, most women are more into your personality than your shape. As long as you are not obese or unemployed you should be fine.
LOL, I looked at his profile picture, too. Yes, he looks flat-out mean and scary! Why would you wear an expression like that in a photo unless you intend to come across as hostile?
No, not a bad-looking guy at all, but the serial-killer face isn't going to draw women.
LOL, I looked at his profile picture, too. Yes, he looks flat-out mean and scary! Why would you wear an expression like that in a photo unless you intend to come across as hostile?
No, not a bad-looking guy at all, but the serial-killer face isn't going to draw women.
I wasn't going to say anything but you guys are critical! I think he has a nice face (not a serial killer one). I personally like a man who is in shape so if he gets back in shape, I'm sure he will do fine. (He stated he needs that, I can't tell from picture becasue he's sitting down.) Smiling is good too
There is more to a relationship than just sex. Perhaps she is not interested in sex because all you are interested in IS sex?
And sex is mental too. He should be more romantic outside the bedroom and make sure he's doing more foreplay in the bedroom. If you're turning her on by doing both these things, she will feel excited to be with you there will be a lot of improvement I'd bet. Good luck OP.
Is the OP around? Is there any sign that he's tried to talk to his gf to get to the bottom of what the problem might be? Is this another one of those hit-and-run OP's?
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