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no, I disagree, it is not a good point, these men incriminated themselves...
you talk about personal rights....well, I have my rights to, and if it would have been a short conversation or comment about cheating, and the men were trying to be discrete, she probably would have never done this, but....she had to sit there and endure this conversation for 2 hours....I would have done the same thing, b/c I was once on the other side of this, and I would want to know, b/c your friends will not tell you...so, yes, she may be hurt and devestated, but at least now she will be able to decide for herself, and down the road, will consider herself lucky she got out of it when she did....
Why would you take that? Yes I have been cheated on.
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and have had your husband tell you, you were nuts for believing such a thing, and then 3 days later after your wife leaves, you take a woman into that house over night...not to mention, another woman the next night...
If you are cheating on your wife or husband, you deserve to have to deal with the consequences, and your wife, or husband doesn't deserve you.
As much as I would agree with this, it is none of anyone else' business to police other people' lives.
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no, I disagree, it is not a good point, these men incriminated themselves...
you talk about personal rights....well, I have my rights to, and if it would have been a short conversation or comment about cheating, and the men were trying to be discrete, she probably would have never done this, but....she had to sit there and endure this conversation for 2 hours....I would have done the same thing, b/c I was once on the other side of this, and I would want to know, b/c your friends will not tell you...so, yes, she may be hurt and devestated, but at least now she will be able to decide for herself, and down the road, will consider herself lucky she got out of it when she did....
.....and you will probably be sued for adding more pain and suffering to her life by having the whole damn public know about it.
I think both parties are douches. Two grown ass men bragging like frat boys about their sexual exploits and how they got away with deceiving their wives...and one vindictive b**** who has no life and a lot of time on her hands to go out of her way to sabotage a strangers life. I can't feel sorry for anything bad that happens to either of them.
IMO, the OP's attitude has more to do with vindictiveness at being hurt by a cheater, and is masquerading as a moral issue. The OP has invoked God, so perhaps she should remember that vengeance is the Lord's.
Second person to say "sue." Please tell me what on earth this woman could be sued for?
Well if there is no independent means of verifying the conversation, she could be sued for libel. Whether or not there are laws around publication of a person's image, I don't know. But according to cremebrulee, one need not have a law be broken to sue. You can sue someone for making you listen to an annoying conversation on a train.
Of course they did. However his wife did not need to find out about it on the nightly news.
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^^ THIS ^^ aim the anger at the right person! I'd be so livid with my husband! He caused this. This is HIS FAULT.
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Who says you should not be pissed off at both? At the end of the day the woman was agent in getting the news put on public blast.
Agree...I'm not saying he has no fault in this at all. I'd be livid with the woman for putting it out there on a public forum. I'd want to deal with it in private within my marriage (or lack of). Him...shoot there are no words to describe how I'd feel about him. He wouldn't be getting off easy I can tell you that.
I don't give a crap about that woman. She didn't make any promises to me. Every last bit of anger would be reserved for the person who REALLY caused this. He is the cause.
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