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A long time ago I was hanging out with a couple of girls and one of them was really pretty unattractive, not trying to be mean or anything, but she was just plain homely as all get out. I was hanging out with the two of them having some laughs trying to just be "friendly" not necessarily start anything with either one of them.
The unattractive girl was making it known, quite obviously, that she was interested in me, even making some crude sexual innuendos.
Long story short, I could have had sex with her, but to be honest it would have been just pity sex, and I didn't want to be an A hole like that. So I just shined it and let it go.
Do guys ever take pity on a woman he knows but never had sex with and has sex with her just because he feels pity for her? Like he normally wouldn't have sex with her because he doesn't want to but he feels sorry for her and does it anyway. I'm talking about the first time. Just wondering if that's even possible or exists.
I've discussed this several times with a girlfriend if mine and we can't come to a consensus.
I think it for the most part is a mentality.
Meanjng, for a lot of guys, they will sleep with any woman, just cause it is fun.
A lot of women will have casual sex as well, but maybe some sleep with a guy cause they feel sorry for him ? I don't know.
But guys aren't really having pity sex. Because basically, they 'still get theirs'.
They may never do it again, it is was ok or bla. But for most guys, its never 'pity sex'
IMO, pity sex is for people that think they are above someone, yet they still find them attractive. Therefore, to cover up the fact that they had sex with someone so beneath them, they sell the concept as 'pity sex'. I guess it's better than admitting a mistake, or that they were drunk.
Pity sex is still sex, and the only one who cares that it is pity sex is the person trying to sell the concept. To everyone else, "you just banged someone you are ashamed of." And now you are making excuses.
You being someone selling the idea of pity sex, not necessarily the OP.
I think it for the most part is a mentality.
Meanjng, for a lot of guys, they will sleep with any woman, just cause it is fun.
A lot of women will have casual sex as well, but maybe some sleep with a guy cause they feel sorry for him ? I don't know.
But guys aren't really having pity sex. Because basically, they 'still get theirs'.
They may never do it again, it is was ok or bla. But for most guys, its never 'pity sex'
IMO, pity sex is for people that think they are above someone, yet they still find them attractive. Therefore, to cover up the fact that they had sex with someone so beneath them, they sell the concept as 'pity sex'. I guess it's better than admitting a mistake, or that they were drunk.
Pity sex is still sex, and the only one who cares that it is pity sex is the person trying to sell the concept. To everyone else, "you just banged someone you are ashamed of." And now you are making excuses.
You being someone selling the idea of pity sex, not necessarily the OP.
Hmm interesting. You may be right.
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, but to be honest, I really wasn't attracted to her, so who knows....
