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Old 12-14-2013, 01:28 PM
 
Location: Midwest
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How can you chalk it up as rejection when you didn't say a word to them? Next time say something like "Ya know, stamps aren't the only thing I'm good at licking , baby". Try it out and report back.
Lol!!

Too bad they're stickers now, but that's a good one. Hahahaha
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Old 12-14-2013, 01:29 PM
 
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Trying being me. I'm darkskinned and most men stereotype me as being angry, mean and masculine therefore they chose lightskinned, white and Asian women as partners
Duchamp dude posted 3 pictures of I believe the same woman in your thread. I think she's from some reality TV show. Is that woman dark skinned or light skinned, according to you?
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Old 12-14-2013, 01:30 PM
 
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How can you chalk it up as rejection when you didn't say a word to them? Next time say something like "Ya know, stamps aren't the only thing I'm good at licking , baby". Try it out and report back.
Women on this forum are always talking about non-verbal communication. I'm able to read non-verbal rejections.
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Old 12-14-2013, 01:31 PM
 
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Lol!!

Too bad they're stickers now, but that's a good one. Hahahaha
I used to like the taste of stamps. Envelopes don't taste so good.
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Old 12-14-2013, 01:32 PM
 
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We see what we want to see. Not that you want that but it's easier. It couldn't be that they're at a post office a week and a half before Christmas and were disgusted by the lines and hassle, it's you.

I'm sorry you're feeling this way but 9 times out of 10 they're probably not even paying attention that your in the room.

Are you more upset that they're "chubby" and under your leage and they're not turning to you to start a convo with hopes of a date to follow?
I never said they're under my league. Actually, nearly all women are out of my league.
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Old 12-14-2013, 01:38 PM
 
Location: sumter
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How can you chalk it up as rejection when you didn't say a word to them? Next time say something like "Ya know, stamps aren't the only thing I'm good at licking , baby". Try it out and report back.
LOL and a palm print across his face.
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Old 12-14-2013, 01:42 PM
 
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You'll never be able to understand what this is like.

I only went to the post office for 15 minutes and I saw at least 7 women that were attractive to me. They all rejected me as being sub-standard (I could tell by their mannerisms), even though a couple of them were overweight and all of them were "plain looking". I did not stare at any of them, I only glanced. But I knew that all of them thought I was unattractive, and they all communicated to me clearly non-verbally "you are ugly and don't you dare even look at me".

You'll never be able to understand what this is like.
7 women in 15 minutes all standing within ear and eye shot of each other. I don't know what you mean by "glance" but if it was like a flirt glance, they may have thought you were some player trying to pick up every woman in the room and treated you as such. And if you truly only glanced at them, how do you know their disgust was with you, and not having to wait in line at the post office... I know I am not exactly a bucket of cheer standing in a long, slow moving line at a bureaucracy. Aside from you aren't going to be able to pick someone up by merely glancing at them. You'd have been better off talking and joking with the woman closest to you.

My point, don't take it too personally. You were in a bad spot at a bad time to strike up something with a woman.
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Old 12-14-2013, 01:45 PM
 
Location: sumter
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You'll never be able to understand what this is like.

I only went to the post office for 15 minutes and I saw at least 7 women that were attractive to me. They all rejected me as being sub-standard (I could tell by their mannerisms), even though a couple of them were overweight and all of them were "plain looking". I did not stare at any of them, I only glanced. But I knew that all of them thought I was unattractive, and they all communicated to me clearly non-verbally "you are ugly and don't you dare even look at me".

You'll never be able to understand what this is like.
why would you think that these women don't have a guy already and single and available to you. their husband or boyfriend could be out in the car waiting on them with the kids. I'm sure checking another guy out was the last thing on their mind.
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Old 12-14-2013, 01:46 PM
 
Location: FL
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Lol!!

Too bad they're stickers now, but that's a good one. Hahahaha
Your right, I forgot they are stickers nowadays...showing my age now,lol.
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Old 12-14-2013, 01:51 PM
 
Location: Midwest
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I used to like the taste of stamps. Envelopes don't taste so good.
I don't remember the taste. I do remember my mom using a sponge when she had Christmas cards send out and such.
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