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Old 01-05-2014, 01:05 PM
 
Location: In nature
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An annoying thing I've noticed more often lately: men in their 40's, 50's, 60's prefer to date much younger women. Isn't it weird dating someone who could be your daughter? It just strikes me
As kind of selfish.
Is this new info

 
Old 01-05-2014, 01:06 PM
 
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Yeah don't you know all older women look like grandmas but men look great? The funny thing is both online and off I am approached by much younger men and the ones offline do it because I look like their age. But what do I know I'm just an old hag.
Why do you have to qualify that as looking like their age? Many men don't look like their age?
 
Old 01-05-2014, 01:08 PM
 
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And these are important to discuss why? I can electronically scrap the NET for radfems , militant lesbians; who would wrap everything in flannel as if it tasted like bacon ; and birthday party photos with the primary elements being, obesity, all girl and cake. Float to the stinking shallows of either sex and start the propeller?
Huh?
 
Old 01-05-2014, 01:09 PM
 
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Why do you have to qualify that as looking like their age? Many men don't look like their age?
I look younger than my age and many men I know look older. The ones who seem to want younger are the ones who look older than their age.
 
Old 01-05-2014, 01:14 PM
 
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Younger women often possess traits older men are highly attracted to:

1. Firmer, more fit bodies (see today's 60+ Jane Seymour's bikini cover for exception)

2. Clearer, wrinkle-free skin

3. A youthful innocence, exuberance, still "chasing dreams" quality about them

4. Lots of energy and zest for life/trying new things

5. A natural inclination for making men feel like powerful leaders/teachers/animals...

BTW, these above qualities can be emulated by older women, if they so choose to do so. FTW, my SO is 10+ years older than me, and we are a perfect fit. I happen to still possess the above qualities at my age (40's), as do many of my friends.

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Old 01-05-2014, 01:14 PM
 
Location: The Jar
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Just seems like women are willing to put up withsaggy testicles / old age in men, but not the other way around.
Hmmm...

I think that is a blanket statement--as my 'boys' aren't the least bit saggy -even at their size!
BTW, "age" doesn't determine your sag--like with young women who start life out with droops, and older women whose points still sit way up high (naturally). It's the genes and the body of the individual.

Men like younger women for a variety of reasons. That, too, will vary with the individual.
 
Old 01-05-2014, 01:17 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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What's with men wanting younger women?
It's that new car smell
 
Old 01-05-2014, 01:18 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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Younger women often possess traits older men are highly attracted to:

1. Firmer, more fit bodies (see today's 60+ Jane Seymour's bikini cover for exception)

2. Clearer, wrinkle-free skin

3. A youthful innocence, exuberance, still "chasing dreams" quality about them

4. Lots of energy and zest for life/trying new things

5. A natural inclination for making men feel like powerful leaders/teachers/animals...

BTW, these above qualities can be emulated by older women, if they so choose to do so. FTW, my SO is 10+ years older than me, and we are a perfect fit. I happen to still possess the above qualities at my age (40's), as do many of my friends.
The key part of the post
 
Old 01-05-2014, 01:20 PM
 
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An annoying thing I've noticed more often lately: men in their 40's, 50's, 60's prefer to date much younger women. Isn't it weird dating someone who could be your daughter? It just strikes me
As kind of selfish.
And poor Mexicans often illegally enter the United States for work. You need and explanation as to why impoverished people from more impoverished countries are attracted to moving into a more wealthy country, and why older men find younger women sexually attractive?

And what's selfish? I think active homosexuality is sexually immature behavior. And think of all the gay men in their 40's that could be dating women in their 40's rather than the male "twinks" age 24 they help groom and mentor into the gay lifestyle by dating them. But I'm hazarding a guess you don't care who men date so long as they label themselves gay and date other men. On the other hand you find it morally objectionable (as a woman circa 21st Century) to find heterosexual men in their 40's exercising their pro-choice rights in dating women.

For the record, I think abortion is selfish.
 
Old 01-05-2014, 01:32 PM
 
Location: Chicago, IL
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I have met a lot of older woman who are very attractive but every time I date one, they make me feel old even though I'm several years younger than them.
I can relate to this, actually. While I'm open to dating women of any age (within reason) on principle, when I have dated older women (and sometimes even with same-age women) they tend to want a slower, more conventional (for lack of a better word) pace of life than I do. I realize that's certainly not true of all of them, but that has been my overall experience.
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