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I find this so hard to believe. Not saying you're lying, but unless you have a serious problem (like deformity, criminal record etc) no woman will be that mean. Women don't directly approach men - unless you're Brad Pitt lookalike - but they do give off signals that you should approach them...........
I'm not sure what you're saying.
It just takes more than being a good dude to be attractive to women. The less physically attractive you are, the longer the odds. It has nothing to do with them being mean, at least not in a direct sense.
Please do not get into the signals game/theory again. It's absolutely useless.
I'm a 24 year old black male and not very good-looking (2 at best). All my life, I was told "You're too ugly to get an unattractive woman! No way you will get a woman who is sexy." All this came from my family, no lie it lowered my self-esteem & confidence to the point where I don't even ask women out at all. I assumed every woman in the world would reject me, so I just don't try at all. Being an introvert doesn't help either. I would never approach a woman out of my league either, that's rejection waiting to happen. So can someone as damaged as me date?
Just gotta make a good living. Look at the Maloof Bros. Trump? Mark Cuban. Biggie/Puffy. Nobody would give them the time if they did not have money. Rapper Mase said it best, "I'm getting head from girls that used to hardly speak."
It just takes more than being a good dude to be attractive to women. The less physically attractive you are, the longer the odds. It has nothing to do with them being mean, at least not in a direct sense.
Please do not get into the signals game/theory again. It's absolutely useless.
It's best not to waste your time with some of the posters on here. Many of them live in some idealized world that is clearly not the reality that most of us reside in. In their fictitious world, no one is really ugly, everyone always has a select group of people that are attracted to them and they can pursue relationships with.
You will never convince these people, ever. Best to give up and move on.
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Just gotta make a good living. Look at the Maloof Bros. Trump? Mark Cuban. Biggie/Puffy. Nobody would give them the time if they did not have money. Rapper Mase said it best, "I'm getting head from girls that used to hardly speak."
Yes, because every ugly man can be a billionaire. Great advice. Also, the whole money thing really works once you hit well into the millions. 6 figures is not at all impressive to women in general.
It just takes more than being a good dude to be attractive to women. The less physically attractive you are, the longer the odds. It has nothing to do with them being mean, at least not in a direct sense.
Please do not get into the signals game/theory again. It's absolutely useless.
This is the problem. You're making an assumption that women care about looks - they don't. They care about personality. Be a good guy and women will come to you. It is that simple.
This is the problem. You're making an assumption that women care about looks - they don't. They care about personality. Be a good guy and women will come to you. It is that simple.
Go to the gym and work out a little. You don't have to become ripped, just get in better shape and get some muscle tone in your arms. I've just started working out and I feel so much better about myself and more confident. Women will see that confidence.
This is the problem. You're making an assumption that women care about looks - they don't. They care about personality. Be a good guy and women will come to you. It is that simple.
Totally not true, you need to have the opportunity to prove you're a good guy to a woman first, and that requires they give you the chance.
IMHO, you will either need a lot of cheddar (if that type of girl is appealing to you) or a lot of personality, charisma, and confidence.
You may have to stage campaigns of conquest - as opposed to being good looking and just saying "hello", but I see no reason you can't have what you want.
Instead of worrying about finding a girl, concentrate on making yourself the best person you can be while also making yourself known in your community.
Getting women is exactly like sales. What you are selling is yourself.
Some men are very good at sales and are able to get women to "buy" a crappy product.
Some guys are poor at sales, but their product sells itself.
For many men, they are bad at sales and their product is poor as well.
That's why it's important to improve the product and your sales pitch.
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