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Yeah, I'm going to pull out the age card again, Hoop. You talk a good show, but when you meet someone you really like, when she sleeps with you isn't going to make a difference. If you enjoy her company and you have common interests, you won't want to let her go so easily. I've had a few multiyear relationships with people with whom I got busy on the first date. My last SO and I were together for seven years, and we fooled around on the first date. Not all the way, but enough. One relationship was supposed to be a ONS with someone I met in a bar. That lasted two and a half years.
Whoops, I didn't drink coffee today because the machine is broken at work. So I totally missed this part of your post.
Yes, I realize that things are not as clear cut in real life which is why I like the don't ask, don't tell strategy. As long as she hasn't been gangbanged, tag teamed, threesomed, or any sort of disrespectful crap. That's as far as I can bend though on this issue and even then the girl better not bring this up later on. I am a pretty open minded person but just on this issue and a few others I am not very pliable.
Whoops, I didn't drink coffee today because the machine is broken at work. So I totally missed this part of your post.
Yes, I realize that things are not as clear cut in real life which is why I like the don't ask, don't tell strategy. As long as she hasn't been gangbanged, tag teamed, threesomed, or any sort of disrespectful crap. That's as far as I can bend though on this issue and even then the girl better not bring this up later on. I am a pretty open minded person but just on this issue and a few others I am not very pliable.
Apparently not as open-minded as you think!
If all the members of a group sex is OK with it, then why should anyone else judge them in any way?
To me, they are good at multitasking or, being very generous by sharing their love and body with more than one person at one time.
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How is having a threesome disrespectful? If someone is using a third as plaything and not treating them as a person, well sure, but that is just a bad dynamic, but it doesn't need to be that way.
If all the members of a group sex is OK with it, then why should anyone else judge them in any way?
To me, they are good at multitasking or, being very generous by sharing their love and body with more than one person at one time.
Ain't nothin' wrong with that!
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How is having a threesome disrespectful? If someone is using a third as plaything and not treating them as a person, well sure, but that is just a bad dynamic, but it doesn't need to be that way.
So because I am not okay with a few things I am not open minded. Funny how having preferences is a problem for you people to accept. Instead you people always have to make it out to be that something is wrong with someone for having preferences.
Funny how the "regressives" here try to peddle their views in this manner.
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Preferences are fine. We all have them.
Labeling something as "disrespectful" or indicating it is somehow wrong (i.e. "crap") just because it doesn't fall in your preferences is something else entirely.
Don't ask, Don't tell means I won't have to disclose my numbers and honestly I don't count anymore because I don't care for it. After a certain point the numbers have become meaningless to me as I got older.
If you don't care about numbers, why have you been dragging on some wild goose chase the last few pages? That doesn't jibe with this recent post of yours:
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That's as far as I can bend though on this issue and even then the girl better not bring this up later on. I am a pretty open minded person but just on this issue and a few others I am not very pliable.
This doesn't sound like a guy who doesn't care about numbers.
If you don't care about numbers, why have you been dragging on some wild goose chase the last few pages? That doesn't jibe with this recent post of yours:
This doesn't sound like a guy who doesn't care about numbers.
Labeling something as "disrespectful" or indicating it is somehow wrong (i.e. "crap") just because it doesn't fall in your preferences is something else entirely.
Most people understand this difference.
I still standby what said and you be far are a person with no morals. I haven't forgotten your other ridiculous posts in this section.
I was clearly talking about MY own numbers. Seems like you guys are so eager to hang me because I don't agree with your values that people aren't reading the posts.
Also Ruth why are you so concerned about what I think. Lol you want me to make an exception and take you on a date?
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I still standby what said and you be far are a person with no morals. I haven't forgotten your other ridiculous posts in this section.
I certainly don't share your uptight morals, thankfully.
Treat people honestly, with respect, and as you would like to be treated. It's all rather simple, really, for good people.
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