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Old 03-20-2014, 05:13 PM
 
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not crazy outright pursuing, although I will initiate stuff sometimes, throw a text out there, a phone call, etc. Most of the time it doesn't lead anywhere, go figure. So now I just let women pursue me, I facilitate it and all goes well.
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Old 03-20-2014, 06:33 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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not crazy outright pursuing, although I will initiate stuff sometimes, throw a text out there, a phone call, etc. Most of the time it doesn't lead anywhere, go figure. So now I just let women pursue me, I facilitate it and all goes well.
That is what I will do if I ever met a woman, I will call her one time. She doesn't respond in a day I will delete her number and she will be forgotten.
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Old 03-29-2014, 01:33 PM
 
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We could use a thread specifically about cold-approach history. I've never done that. The only offline pursuing I've done has been half-hearted. Some women have approached me, but nah, it's all kind of pointless as I see it. My kind of woman wouldn't do it, and she's a rare bird, especially offline. I have used the Internet for pursuing women.
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Old 03-30-2014, 01:59 AM
 
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This is a thread for the guys here, but women can chime in. I am a man who has never approached a woman in his life. However, I did have one woman come up to me but it didn't get to a 3rd date because we weren't compatible. It was my choice to stop talking to her. I will say that I don't have any experience with women besides 2 kisses and 2 dates in my life. I know some of you all are married or dating someone but are there any guys like me on here who have never pursued a woman before?
I used to pursue regular women all of the time, but than I got tired of the 100 percent rejection rate. So now I only pursue female sex workers who never reject me.
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Old 03-30-2014, 08:49 AM
 
Location: Jupiter
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I used to pursue regular women all of the time, but than I got tired of the 100 percent rejection rate. So now I only pursue female sex workers who never reject me.
I am leaning close to that. But it feels so wrong.
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Old 03-30-2014, 10:21 AM
 
Location: "Silicon Valley" (part of San Francisco Bay Area, California, USA)
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I am leaning close to that. But it feels so wrong.
Yeah, don't do it. A moral person would never do that.

You can get all the sex you need from yourself.

What you would get from involving another person in your life is what you cannot get from a prostitute: companionship, support, love.
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