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Yes, I've never pursued a woman before. The women I have crushes on tend to be out of my league, and I would never want to make them feel uncomfortable by approaching them with romantic interest. It might make them feel bad about themselves to be pursued by someone like me since I'm one of the ugliest tools in the shed. I've had 2 relationships in my 36 years of living and those came about naturally (one was a roommate situation that turned romantic and one was developed over the internet where the woman didn't see me until we met and she already decided she liked me beforehand). I'm a good guy, but it takes time to understand that. If I pursued a woman I was interested in in person, I would get shut down and not get that time.
Yes, I've never pursued a woman before. The women I have crushes on tend to be out of my league,
Forget the league mentality. I'm not saying that it doesn't exist, but you can't always judge a book by it's cover either. If you see a woman you feel is desirable, pursue her. The worst that will happen is that she says no. How bad is that??
Location: "Silicon Valley" (part of San Francisco Bay Area, California, USA)
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WHAT?!!? That is written in all caps by the way!!!
How can you even ask that? What a turn on it is to kiss a woman. What a way to get juices going and sparks flyin....I'd give up a lot before I'd ever give up kissing!!
Indeed. I don't really think it will ever happen, but I hope my first kiss will be as wonderful as I have always imagined it would be.
Or you said. Which story is the truth... and why do you feel give dishonest accounts of your life to strangers on the Internet?
Why is it so HARD for you guys to be HONEST?
You obviously didn't get the full story. The reason I stopped seeing her is because she is a Hooters girl/party girl. I don't want to date a woman like that no matter how attractive she is. There is the truth.
I never pursued any women before in my life. I tend to not approach women like that because I have a stuttering problem and women just look at me funny when I try to talk to them. I think most men in general don't try to approach women because they fear rejection or they think the women is taken. Most women I try to talk to are taken or not interested in me. It is kinda awkward to approach a women out of the blue. They may labeled you a creep if you do that.
I never pursued any women before in my life. I tend to not approach women like that because I have a stuttering problem and women just look at me funny when I try to talk to them. I think most men in general don't try to approach women because they fear rejection or they think the women is taken. Most women I try to talk to are taken or not interested in me. It is kinda awkward to approach a women out of the blue. They may labeled you a creep if you do that.
I never have only because my philosophy is, if a meeting happens naturally then wonderful it might lead to something else. But it always felt a bit creepy to me that someone could just walk up to someone they don't know without reason and start talking to them...but that's just me. Kudos to the men and women who actually do so and successfully do so.
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