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Fear of rejection is the main thing keeping you guys back. I have learned that sometimes you have to just go after what you want. Talking about it gets you nowhere. I started off by going to supermarkets and department stores and introducing myself to the the most attractive cashier at the particular store I was in. It is as simple as going to the checkout counter....saying hello....and then asking how her day has been. They work their and 99% of the time the realize they have to be nice to you. Start off with short 1 or 2 minute conversations. Work on your facial expressions in their mirror. Smile and try to be as nice as possible to those around you. Open doors, say hello, and work on getting comfortable communicating with others. I am sure You guys have a lot to offer a woman. You just don't realize how valuable you are at the moment. If you don't see it then the women you interact with won't see it either.
I coach a lot of young men, adult men, etc and teach them how to develop confidence and learn to be comfortable with communication. Inbox me if you guys would be interested in setting up a session.
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I guess you know me better than I know myself.
Well you advertise it to the world. You're CONSUMED with dating/relationships at the same time you claim not to give a darn and are perfectly happy being alone/would rather be alone? It's just not healthy.
Well you advertise it to the world. You're CONSUMED with dating/relationships at the same time you claim not to give a darn and are perfectly happy being alone/would rather be alone? It's just not healthy.
That is EXACTLY the problem dude. I use to be in the same situation as you are in now.
You are going to have to put yourself out there eventually.
It will be scary and it will definitely be awkward....but you will be thankful down the road.
Let me know if you are interested and I will inbox you some information from one of my mentors that helped me get things together. He has a radio show that just started. First show is tonight at 10 pm.
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