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I've heard and read a lot of stories of wild things people did when they were in high school or college. Wild sexual things and it all sounds very fun. For ex. people who were in high school marching band getting a handjob on the bus or having secret sex in a hotel room, high school football players and just college students in general hooking up at parties and I guess I'm asking if it's possible to have that kind of fun as an adult or does it just get lame after a while because everybody expects you to marry and settle down? Does dating eventually go from being fun to just being a chore?
I don't know. I dated a bit in my mid-teens, missed dating in my late teens-early 20s, and dated more in my mid 20s. Haven't been able to date at all in my late 20s-early 30s. My answer would be that finding a date is impossible for me, so it sucks either way.
Does dating eventually go from being fun to just being a chore?
Why on earth would anyone go out on a date if it's a chore? I'm 68 and will revert back in several more years and let you know if dating or sexual shenanigans become either a chore or a bore ...
It wasn't old when I was in my mid/late 20s... those ladies were coming into their prime.
They are also beginning to get married and have children, which means less are available for fun and more of them are thinking about serious relationships.
You have to find women willing to do that, I think alot of those stories apply to a very minority of people. Just look at all the CD posts about women NOT wanting to sleep with people or making a huge deal out of a BJ. No of course that is not fun, it makes dating tedious, but hey us guys still want to get laid so here we are.
If your that guy that women want to give random BJ's too or drop their pants then yea, but your right there are SO many women that push for marriage (which is a horrible idea for a man) and kids at a certian age. Late 20's early 30's women start getting baby fever and it just sucks the fun out of dating. Odds are she will either hint at or bring up marriage and kids before you get your first BJ.
Being on the wrong end of the supply and demand curve my entire life it makes things tiring and tedious. I am guessing I will not live much past 50. Trying to build any sort of leverage from the back end of the curve takes huge amounts of energy.
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