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Old 04-16-2014, 01:27 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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Due to me being an introvert (not shy! ) it is hard for me to meet women because social interaction drains me. Other than my mom and sisters, I don't interact with women much. I do have friends but they're all guys and they're introverted just like me. At my college, it is extremely hard to meet women because: 1. I don't know any of the women (not even the ones in my class), 2. They're always surrounded by guys (which makes me believe they're taken), and 3. I used to have too much pride and ego to risk rejection...again (bad thing I know). My experiences with women are: 3 dates and 2 kisses and that's it. Honestly, the only way I will ever have any hope of getting a girlfriend is by cold approaching women. My friends have given up on women completely and I don't want to end up like them. Should I just go with the cold approach?
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Old 04-16-2014, 01:30 PM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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It's hard for us to want to give advice to a guy who doesn't even treat women with respect. Sorry bro, you're on your own.
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Old 04-16-2014, 01:30 PM
 
Location: Terra
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I think you need to stop seeking the same advice from people on this forum every other day and just get out and experience the world instead of taking pity on yourself.

Women can smell that on you a mile away. That's your problem.
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Old 04-16-2014, 01:31 PM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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Old 04-16-2014, 01:32 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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It's hard for us to want to give advice to a guy who doesn't even treat women with respect. Sorry bro, you're on your own.
Alright then.
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Old 04-16-2014, 01:34 PM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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As an introvert, the cold approach would be a terrible way to ask women out. You need to put yourself in situations where you can warm up to women (and vice versa) Talk to people in your classes, get involved with activities, don't just lock yourself up in your room during your off time--study in the library or the student center where you can interact with people.
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Old 04-16-2014, 01:35 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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As an introvert, the cold approach would be a terrible way to ask women out. You need to put yourself in situations where you can warm up to women (and vice versa) Talk to people in your classes, get involved with activities, don't just lock yourself up in your room during your off time--study in the library or the student center where you can interact with people.
Well I am screwed then. This thread was a bad idea.
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Old 04-16-2014, 01:36 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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I don't think you should be trying to date anyone until you learn how to respect women.
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Old 04-16-2014, 01:40 PM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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Well I am screwed then. This thread was a bad idea.

Yes
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Old 04-16-2014, 01:41 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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i don't think you should be trying to date anyone until you learn how to respect women.
Really? If I didn't respect women that would mean I don't respect my mom or sisters. They're women as well.
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