Guys: How should a wife best seduce her husband? (dance, kids, call)

[Raena77]

Originally Posted by Dead Man Walking

[Frihed89]

Thought experiment or not, for most wives it does take a bit of courage, especially if their sex life is in a rut. Fears of looking stupid and rejection can run high. A wife wants to be confirmed in her sexuality just as much as, or more than, she want so have sex. I very much liked the "let the towel fall to the floor" approach. It's classy and reasonably subtle, but still entails a risk. Presumably, the best approach for a wife is based on her experience of what works more generally to arouse her man. But if the relationship is in the toilet in the first place, nothing is very likely to work positively, except possibly counseling.

[onihC]

Many women here have shown to be a bit too lazy to seduce their man when they say it requires no effort, all they have to do is get naked and that’s it, and so on. It would be like saying all a man has to do for his woman is hand her a couple of flowers and a chocolate bar and that’s it or hand her a few bucks for shopping.

For me seduction works right before we both go to work and things tend to build up during the day as we exchange a few text messages and phone calls from conversations ranging from sweet and sentimental to plain old seductive until we meet after work. Then there’s the physical and verbal seduction and so on.

Any creative woman here who has put a bit more effort that would like to share what has worked for her other than just winking at her man?

[Amelie90]

Originally Posted by onihC

Many women here have shown to be a bit too lazy to seduce their man when they say it requires no effort, all they have to do is get naked and that’s it, and so on. It would be like saying all a man has to do for his woman is hand her a couple of flowers and a chocolate bar and that’s it or hand her a few bucks for shopping.

For me seduction works right before we both go to work and things tend to build up during the day as we exchange a few text messages and phone calls from conversations ranging from sweet and sentimental to plain old seductive until we meet after work. Then there’s the physical and verbal seduction and so on.

Any creative woman here who has put a bit more effort that would like to share what has worked for her other than just winking at her man?

Is it really laziness if getting naked is what works for them? Unless they think admitting that they have to do more than just getting naked, would imply that:

1. She doesn't look good naked.
2. Her husband has a low sex drive.
3. Her husband is gay.

[Dead Man Walking]

I get all hot and bothered when they start showing you their panties and bras.

"You like this one....how about this one...what about these"?

Uh-huh!! lol

[Mikala43]

Originally Posted by onihC

Many women here have shown to be a bit too lazy to seduce their man when they say it requires no effort, all they have to do is get naked and that’s it, and so on. It would be like saying all a man has to do for his woman is hand her a couple of flowers and a chocolate bar and that’s it or hand her a few bucks for shopping.

Always got to turn a positive into a negative?

It's what my husband says, not me. He commented directly on this thread and that fact last night.

[mikestrong]

Doesnt take much to seduce any man unless the man is looking elsewhere.

[monumentus]

Originally Posted by srjth

Serious question for the guys. Assume he's busy with work and all that other jazz...

The question is like going into a cookery forum and saying "How should I make cake to best please my party guests". It is a nonsense question because there are innumerable versions of "cake" and the best one is going to depend on the party guests.

In other words - guys are not off the production line automatons that all work the same way. The best person on the planet to answer such a question is him - and the second best person is you. Only you guys know what works for him. Explore that. And communicate. In all relationships I find communication is key.

[srjth]

Originally Posted by monumentus

The question is like going into a cookery forum and saying "How should I make cake to best please my party guests". It is a nonsense question because there are innumerable versions of "cake" and the best one is going to depend on the party guests.

In other words - guys are not off the production line automatons that all work the same way. The best person on the planet to answer such a question is him - and the second best person is you. Only you guys know what works for him. Explore that. And communicate. In all relationships I find communication is key.

Well why don't you answer for you?

[Meyerland]

Originally Posted by onihC

Many women here have shown to be a bit too lazy to seduce their man when they say it requires no effort, all they have to do is get naked and that’s it, and so on. It would be like saying all a man has to do for his woman is hand her a couple of flowers and a chocolate bar and that’s it or hand her a few bucks for shopping.

For me seduction works right before we both go to work and things tend to build up during the day as we exchange a few text messages and phone calls from conversations ranging from sweet and sentimental to plain old seductive until we meet after work. Then there’s the physical and verbal seduction and so on.

Any creative woman here who has put a bit more effort that would like to share what has worked for her other than just winking at her man?

After 18 years together what works for me is...asking for it. I find the more often you do it, the more both parties want it. There is no "seduction" so to speak. We take care of ourselves and try to be "sexy", but we both know that we are a sure thing.

We tend to put more effort in the act than in the seduction.

The last time I got flowers was probably 10+ years ago, and I don't need money or candy to get in the mood.

OP- men are visual creatures, so wear something sexy.