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Serious question for the guys. Assume he's busy with work and all that other jazz...
I am married and I can say that work always works for me is when my wife walks into the room naked with a single intention of sex. The look of the intention on her face is just a thing of beauty. She has the absolutely most perfect body (5' 2" and 123 lbs) in the world and it just gets me every time. She does thing where she just comes over to me, grabs me, throws me down and does special things to me. It works every time.
This cooking thing people mention will never work for me. Cooking and eating is not something that I find sexy or even makes me think of sex. Eating is not something that I find pleasure in, as I eat to fuel my body not eat for happiness.
Really, a wife is the only one who really knows what needs to be done to seduce her husband because she knows him better than anyone else and knows what will work and not work.
Female posters have shared that all they have to do pretty much is pull their pants down and bend over and that seems to work just fine in their relationships. No effort or creativity seems to be the norm for most I guess.
Is there any woman out there who does more than that when it comes to intimacy/sex that might want to share?
I am surprised to continue to see female posters express how they don’t put any effort or creativity when it comes to sex. Aren't women supposed to like romance? Sure, a man can eat a sandwich just fine and be content but he can also eat an elaborate dish and be happy as well. It seems for many no-effort is what works for them so why not, right?
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Originally Posted by JustJulia
You tell us.
Like I already mentioned pages ago it all starts way before we even have physical contact. I have enjoyed coming back from work to see a trail of clothes to the candlelit bathroom with a full tub with my girl waiting for me for example. The whole “I just pull my pants down, bend over, and my guy is happy…I just get naked and let him have sex…” is fine too. But we enjoy keeping it varied from passionate quickies to slow paced and romantic and so on.
We aren't married yet, but when my fiancee wants to initiate something she gives the dogs a rawhide, shuts them in the basement, and turns up the stereo before heading into the bedroom. No matter whatever else I am doing at the time, I have learned to drop it as soon as the dogs are shut in the basement.
I am surprised to continue to see female posters express how they don’t put any effort or creativity when it comes to sex. Aren't women supposed to like romance? Sure, a man can eat a sandwich just fine and be content but he can also eat an elaborate dish and be happy as well. It seems for many no-effort is what works for them so why not, right?
Like I already mentioned pages ago it all starts way before we even have physical contact. I have enjoyed coming back from work to see a trail of clothes to the candlelit bathroom with a full tub with my girl waiting for me for example. The whole “I just pull my pants down, bend over, and my guy is happy…I just get naked and let him have sex…” is fine too. But we enjoy keeping it varied from passionate quickies to slow paced and romantic and so on.
I will reply later when I am on a device where I can copy and paste. In the meantime, please contemplate all the other male responses on the thread and how many of them were hoping for flowers and candlelit bubble baths.
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Sure, a man can eat a sandwich just fine and be content but he can also eat an elaborate dish and be happy as well. It seems for many no-effort is what works for them so why not, right? 
