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I will reply later when I am on a device where I can copy and paste. In the meantime, please contemplate all the other male responses on the thread and how many of them were hoping for flowers and candlelit bubble baths.
I'll tell you again. A man can be happy with you fetching him a beer and fixing him a sandwich while watching the game. If you prepare a more elaborate meal, would he complain? Nope. Of course, the second one requires effort and creativity so why bother? Right?
Men making it easy for women or not supports what I said not so long ago that women don't put much effort or creativity for sex. I guess you can now finally agree.
I'll tell you again. A man can be happy with you fetching him a beer and fixing him a sandwich while watching the game. If you prepare a more elaborate meal, would he complain? Nope. Of course, the second one requires effort and creativity so why bother? Right?
Men making it easy for women or not supports what I said not so long ago that women don't put much effort or creativity for sex. I guess you can now finally agree.
I assume you are basing this on your personal experiences. The men I have been involved with would disagree with you!
I assume you are basing this on your personal experiences. The men I have been involved with would disagree with you!
Not mine. I am basing this on what women have also been posting here on how all they have to do is pull their pants down, bend over, and that's it. I have asked a few women here and they said no effort is required by their part since their man is ok with it.
Not mine. I am basing this on what women have also been posting here on how all they have to do is pull their pants down, bend over, and that's it. I have asked a few women here and they said no effort is required by their part since their man is ok with it.
If they are happy with the situation - why does it bother you?
I don't share details of my sex life on the internet - but my experiences are not what you are describing. I can only assume that women have not put forth much effort or creativity in sex with you - otherwise you would be sharing how women can put forth effort and creativity into their sex lives.
I'll tell you again. A man can be happy with you fetching him a beer and fixing him a sandwich while watching the game. If you prepare a more elaborate meal, would he complain? Nope. Of course, the second one requires effort and creativity so why bother? Right?
Men making it easy for women or not supports what I said not so long ago that women don't put much effort or creativity for sex. I guess you can now finally agree.
Not really. I think you are interpreting posts based on your personal bias. I am as well, but my post history speaks for itself and does not match your theory.
I don't think beer and a sandwich is seductive at all, nor would my husband. I feed him multiple times a day because that is how I express love. Getting him in the mood is an entirely different skill set. My grandma makes good sandwiches.
If they are happy with the situation - why does it bother you?
Didn’t say it bothered me. Having an opinion or disagreeing doesn’t mean someone is bothered. Of course they are happy about not putting any effort or creativity when it comes to sex.
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I don't share details of my sex life on the internet
All of a sudden women became saints here in the forum, of all places, and sharing all the effort and creativity they put for sex (which they have said they don’t) is all of a sudden too dirty?
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I can only assume that women have not put forth much effort or creativity in sex with you
So when you disagree with someone and share how magically perfect your relationship is it means it is actually the opposite? Come on. You share what you enjoy in your relationship with others many many times around here. I just shared a bit of my experience like you do often.
I guess I was not wrong when I said women put no effort and creativity. Not sure why they all said they disagreed and now they agree.
Not really. I think you are interpreting posts based on your personal bias. I am as well, but my post history speaks for itself and does not match your theory.
I don't think beer and a sandwich is seductive at all, nor would my husband. I feed him multiple times a day because that is how I express love. Getting him in the mood is an entirely different skill set. My grandma makes good sandwiches.
You didn’t get my example or maybe I expressed it wrong so here it goes again…
…You feed your husband meals that he likes just fine. But one day you discover a recipe for an interesting meal you imagine he will like but after reading the recipe you see this meal is elaborate and it takes way more time, ingredients, and skills to prepare it but you sure he will like it. You can either say “Naaah, I’ll fix him the same old thing. Besides, I know he likes it and is content with it, we’re both happy, so why bother?” or put a little effort to try that new recipe and see how it goes. Same thing with sex. Female posters have expressed how pretty much all it takes is for them to pull their pants down, bend over, and that’s it. Hey, its perfectly fine, I have enjoyed that too. But why not try the “other recipes” too? Unless variation is boring to most around here.
LOL, I am probably one of the last posters you need to worry about in that department. Are you planning to encourage male posters like Prince Frog to try different things and hold out for romance? He and a few others were very plain-spoken about the best way to approach them.
LOL, I am probably one of the last posters you need to worry about in that department. Are you planning to encourage male posters like Prince Frog to try different things and hold out for romance? He and a few others were very plain-spoken about the best way to approach them.
I'm sure he will convince all the men to hold out for flowers and chocolate. /lol
Nothing like some internet guy telling others they and/or their spouses are actually unhappy. That concept cracks me up.
I know from the posting history of many of the women here they do lots of things for their husbands, why? Because they love them. It's not like we are literally "I'm naked, get busy", though that would work too. /lol
I know the things that turn my husband on and I do them. I'm not going to seek approval from the virtual world.
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