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Originally Posted by the_contrary
I am 30 years old and am currently living with my 32 year old boyfriend of 7 years. We've lived together for 5 years. Things are going great - we rarely argue, we laugh a lot, we travel together and have fun. He's my best friend. When we moved in together, I knew I wanted to spend my life with him.
We talked about marriage then but both agreed it was not a priority and we should get settled into our careers first.
Now we are both doing well in our careers and I feel ready to take the next step. However, a few weeks ago I brought up marriage again and he said "I'm just not ready yet."
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Under these circumstances, his response to you means he's not ready to marry YOU.
If he doesn't want you, there's nothing you can do.