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everyone keep saying give off a vibe, Idon't know how to do that though. Sometimes they ignore me, refuse to make eye contact and sometimes they don't smile back. It all just makes me feel bad.
I Know this is old,but it really is the area we live in,which is NJ for both of us.
Lots of women i know say the same thing,and at first i thought it was because i was unattractive,but no,that is not it. (It could be that Nyc men have a lower threshhold for beauty)
We all had the one thing in common...we all lived in NJ,esp northern NJ.
I could not figure it out until i noticed i got approached 1000x more often in Nyc and Virginia than in northern NJ.
I Know this is old,but it really is the area we live in,which is NJ for both of us.
Lots of women i know say the same thing,and at first i thought it was because i was unattractive,but no,that is not it. (It could be that Nyc men have a lower threshhold for beauty)
We all had the one thing in common...we all lived in NJ,esp northern NJ.
I could not figure it out until i noticed i got approached 1000x more often in Nyc and Virginia than in northern NJ.
Yeah. Too late for advice, as the OP doesn't seem to come here anymore. He was pretty depressed, and lonely. Hope she's ok. But who knows.
I Know this is old,but it really is the area we live in,which is NJ for both of us.
Lots of women i know say the same thing,and at first i thought it was because i was unattractive,but no,that is not it. (It could be that Nyc men have a lower threshhold for beauty)
We all had the one thing in common...we all lived in NJ,esp northern NJ.
I could not figure it out until i noticed i got approached 1000x more often in Nyc and Virginia than in northern NJ.
I've heard from friends visiting NYC, that the city's pretty friendly toward women.
I don't know, I think I'm frustrated about never being approached. I've been out more often and take care of myself, but NONE of these thousands and thousands of handsome men are interested in knowing me. I mean not one. I see guys every now and then just looking at me but they never SAY anything. So I think they must just enjoy the view but aren't curious. There are just so many attractive men I see everyday and don't know what to do about none of them being interested in me.
I saw this really cute guy today. Young, though, in his 20's. He was just watching me walk down the street but didn't say anything. Then I saw him again this afternoon at a restaurant where I was getting lunch. He was with three of his guys and they all were on lunch together and all work in construction. He didn't say anything! He looked nervous, he did see me but didn't say a word.
And he's really cute. Not as tall as I usually like, but about 5'10. Dark, beautiful curly hair, long dark eyelashes, nice chubby physique, and in his working boots. He wears glasses. I thought he was very attractive.
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Why would a random guy that just sees you, doesn't know you, isn't introduced to you, and you aren't sharing an activity, approach you at all? I can't imagine just walking up to random person and saying what? You're cute, lets have coffee? What a waste of an effort and pretty creepy, really.
Why would a random guy that just sees you, doesn't know you, isn't introduced to you, and you aren't sharing an activity, approach you at all? I can't imagine just walking up to random person and saying what? You're cute, lets have coffee? What a waste of an effort and pretty creepy, really.
It happens every day, why not? Since when is it rude to show a stranger that you think they're attractive and would like to get to know them better? Maybe in your taste but not mine. I like directness and honesty. If a man is interested, there's no other way I would know that unless he speaks up and tells me.
And maybe instead of "hey you're cute let's have coffee," you could complement that I look very nice, then ask where I'm from for starters and where I'm headed. Introduce yourself to me then ask me my name.I don't think that's creepy at all; I think it's kind and considerate.
It happens every day, why not? Since when is it rude to show a stranger that you think they're attractive and would like to get to know them better? Maybe in your taste but not mine. I like directness and honesty. If a man is interested, there's no other way I would know that unless he speaks up and tells me.
And maybe instead of "hey you're cute let's have coffee," you could complement that I look very nice, then ask where I'm from for starters and where I'm headed. Introduce yourself to me then ask me my name.I don't think that's creepy at all; I think it's kind and considerate.
Why can't you do the same when you think a guy is attractive?
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