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Old 06-12-2014, 09:49 PM
 
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I didn't read all the posts but a subtle one I've noticed is using sex to make you late for an appointment, work, etc.
Its a sure sign that they are trying to see how much control they have
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Old 06-12-2014, 10:07 PM
 
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I didn't read all the posts but a subtle one I've noticed is using sex to make you late for an appointment, work, etc.
Its a sure sign that they are trying to see how much control they have
Sounds like paranoia, dude. Or a failure to own up to your own weaknesses. She can't make you be late without your participation.
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Old 06-12-2014, 10:38 PM
 
Location: Virginia Beach, VA
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This post is pretty laughable. The honest truth, is that most men and women in this country start to really pack it on in their 30's. There are people in my gym that are in their 40's that still look great, but it's because they live in the gym, they have good genetics, and they really watch what they eat. I'm a few years from being one of these people. At 25 I looked like one of those guys on a box of underwear without even watching my diet and minimal exercise. At almost 40 years old I still have a tight mid-section and a muscular build, but I make a lot of sacrifices to be in the type of shape that I'm in these days.
I'm actually not certain how your point differs from the post you quoted. The one you said was "laughable."

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If there were actually an abundance of 40 year old women with rocking bodies, guys wouldn't be chasing younger women.
There are a lot of reasons men pursue younger women. I'm sure there are threads dedicated to this topic as well as the topic of older women who pursue younger guys. I'll not speculate into what some of the other reasons may be, but I'll definitely say a lack of options is just one reason and probably not even one of the top 3. Where I live I see plenty of fit and healthy looking 40-somethings, so the idea there is not an abundance of them is probably a matter of noticing or not noticing.

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My comment is true, in that skinny chicks typically don't lose their looks the way women with curves do as the get older. To say otherwise is just silly.
What makes it silly? That's an honest question. People's opinions and preferences vary on this matter. No one opinion is universally right. Not even yours, no matter how many underwear boxes you were once qualified to be on. It sounds like what you're saying is anyone who voices a different opinion than yours is just silly. I hope this isn't really what you're saying. That's just silly.

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And LOL at your yoga comment. Yoga being so intense and all. If you really want to find out how old you are, try doing cross-fit with a group of shapely women in their 20's. I can guarantee that It will bring you back to planet earth.
Yeah, just don't ask any of those shapely crossfit women in their 20s to do an actual pullup! Just to avoid humiliation, you probably shouldn't ask too many crossfit men in their 20s to do an actual pullup either. It may bring you, them, and the whole crossfit cult back to planet earth!
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Old 06-12-2014, 10:39 PM
 
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Sounds like paranoia, dude. Or a failure to own up to your own weaknesses. She can't make you be late without your participation.
Seriously. I have never used sex to make someone late for an appointment. That's actually a thing people do?
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Old 06-13-2014, 01:25 AM
 
Location: Bronx
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Right wing politics
Drives an SUV
Drives a luxury car
Drives everywhere even though we live a in a city with great public trans and bike lanes
Bible thumper
YOu sound like that you will love places like San Francicisco or maybe Manhattan or hip places of Brooklyn. Maybe something organically sustainable or fair trade, locally grown and or sourced.

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This is the spear counterpart to the other thread.

Guys what is it about a woman that tells you not to pursue any further?

Or

Are you the type of guy who doesn't care about her behavior or attitude as long as she's hot?
For me I run for this hills when women have currently unresolved daddy issues, high rate of college debt is another issue, another is when a woman assumes she is hot even though she is not which shows insecurity of character, constant drama, consistent drug use and alcoholism, she talks about her ex boyfriend or ex husband and obviously still has feelings for him, and last more than 1 kid from a previous relationship. Also I like women of many shapes, however the killer for me is either she has a cute face and lacks TNA, or has TNA and lacks a cute face, both aren't deal breakers however if she is skinny or fat with no TNA, or with no cute face or combination I can not date ya.

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Old 06-13-2014, 01:49 AM
 
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Sounds like paranoia, dude. Or a failure to own up to your own weaknesses. She can't make you be late without your participation.
Trust me its a sign, and I admit a sexy woman is my kyrptonite
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Old 06-13-2014, 06:21 AM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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Seriously. I have never used sex to make someone late for an appointment. That's actually a thing people do?

I don't know about an appointment, but for work, yes... or a workout. They're out there.
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Old 06-13-2014, 07:32 AM
 
Location: Ohio
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Theres some good ones here. I'll add:

Lazy
Insults her looks all the time (insecurity is so unattractive)
Wants to turn lights completely off during sex. Dim is ok.
Poor kisser
Watches the Kardasians religously
So you don't buy the oft-repeated myth that women can't be lousy kissers, either?

I have read a couple places that it's impossible for women to be lousy kissers or bad in bed.

Total BS.
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Old 06-13-2014, 07:36 AM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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I have read a couple places that it's impossible for women to be lousy kissers or bad in bed.

I've met many women that think women can't be bad in bed. That they just need to be there and a guy is happy. That is, of course, horsebleep and a prime sign to run for the hills.
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Old 06-13-2014, 07:37 AM
 
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I would say, any woman who is decked out in expensive clothing.

Louis Vuitton purse, Prada heels, Ray Ban glasses, etc.


But then I wouldn't even run for the hills. I would date her for a while but definitely wouldn't marry a girl like that.

I am trying to retire rich before I hit 40 and I don't want to live that kind of lifestyle.
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