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Originally Posted by Bronxguyanese
I dont know why? I like black women too and I really do, however plenty of black women are not into me. I guess I'm not black enough for average black women especially since I'm heavily mixed. I don't know why they desire to be with those type of guys which do not really amount to nothing much in the long term. I find black women difficult to approach these days. But yes professional and well educated black men tend to be with white women, just like who well educated professional black women tend to be with white men. Its not the race issue of attraction its mainly similarities in education, income strata and work ethic that brings people of different races together.
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I don't think this is the case. For the most part, educated and professional black women still date black men. I rarely come across any like myself who prefer to date interracially.
But going back to the topic of dating someone who's not your type, I went on a few dates with a professional, black guy last year. He had advanced degrees, a great job, carried himself well, was decently attractive and seemed like a really cool guy. He was divorced (no kids) and his ex-wife wasn't black. He did say that it was hard for him to meet women, and I got the feeling that he didn't date black women that often, but he gave me a shot for whatever reason. It was cool hanging out with him, but ultimately, I just didn't feel a romantic connection. But my point is that I'd be lying if I said that I never meet any professional black men who are interested in me because that's not true.