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You're a dodged bullet. Maybe you aren't good enough for her and she'll see this as a sign and move on.
You really didn't want her, did you?
Maybe you should have just told her you were not interested because that is how you felt all along.
Perhaps the reason women "only go for the studs" (in the world constructed by many men here) is that they have a better chance of getting accepted. The "lower levels" are just going to play games and eventually reject them.
That goes for me too!!!
I was such a prick when I was a "loser."
I don't know what to say anymore.
Or maybe, this girl is 9 lbs overweight, or has a funny looking chin, or is too short, or too tall, and he thinks she's not attractive enough and won't admit that, and since he has SO many other options, he's passing her up.
I could see if OP had other girls interested and expected her to make a move, but he needs to take what he can get. And even with the girl doing everything short of asking her out, he still managed to fail on epic proportions.
Because now that I think about it, I don't remember you saying whether or not this girl was attractive. I just assumed you found her attractive because you mentioned your "good looking friend" and how you just assumed that she was just trying to catch his eye.
Maybe he's not into her? That must be it. He wants to be able to do better than her, which is why he's suddenly talking about going to the gym, earning more money, etc. Her approaching him woke something up in him, and now he wants arm candy.
Well, I posted this, back on pg. 5, and got no response from the OP...
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Just answer this honestly.
Were you even attracted to her to begin with?
Because now that I think about it, I don't remember you saying whether or not this girl was attractive. I just assumed you found her attractive because you mentioned your "good looking friend" and how you just assumed that she was just trying to catch his eye.
If he had not been attracted to her, I bet this thread would have not happened in the first place.
If he had not been attracted to her, I bet this thread would have not happened in the first place.
Maybe. Sometimes people get all worked up about someone being attracted to them (or trying to make someone attracted to them) and overlook that they're not that into the other person in the first place. It's some sort of ego thing. I doubt that's the case for the OP, though.
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