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Human papillomavirus (pap-ah-LO-mah-VYE-rus) (HPV) is the most common sexually transmitted virus in the United States. Almost every sexually active person will acquire HPV at some point in their lives.
And I know I am clean not only because of testing, but the doctor actually counseled AGAINST testing for certain things because I had been with only one man in a monogamous relationship for 7 years. So no, I would be exposing a man to exactly nothing, so you can file that little statement away under "nonsense."
You are right, there is a lot about STD's that I don't know just like there is a lot about relationships that you don't know. By your own admission you said it takes several years for an STD to clear the body. You may also be forgetting doctors have a license to practice medicine, they don't know everything, they are not always 100% correct in their consultations. Your words were: that a man who has been with a hooker in the past few years IS INFECTED. He is NOT "clean" and there is no way he can BE clean because it takes HPV several years to clear the body. You are saying he is in fact infected just because he was with a hooker. what if that hooker isn't infected? Is he infected because of his association with her? There comes a time when you have to use some common sense even if you don't want to... In the OP's question she mentioned having sex with an escort, she didn't mean having sex as a life style with an escort. I understood her to mean a one time thing.
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You are right, there is a lot about STD's that I don't know just like there is a lot about relationships that you don't know. By your own admission you said it takes several years for an STD to clear the body. You may also be forgetting doctors have a license to practice medicine, they don't know everything, they are not always 100% correct in their consultations.
No, not "an STD." HPV.
And if you don't know a lot about it, then why are you rambling on about it here? As for hookers not having any STDs, that is about the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard in 23 years covering health and science. No such critter.
The rest of your post is nonsense and I am writing it off as such. There is no arguing with that kind of ignorance. You're married, and I'm assuming you and your wife are faithful, so perhaps the best thing you can do here is just appreciate what you have instead of talking about things you admit you know very little about.
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You know Lilac110 you actually make a pretty good argument about how virgins are safe and free from STDs, an empty gun in your words. And yet you refuse to date a virgin. Why? From your argument here one could conclude that a virgin would be pretty nice and safe.
Because I'm 48, and if a man my age is a virgin, chances are so high as to not be worth quibbling about that he is either religious in a way I am not interested in dealing with or he has some kind of emotional issue that has prevented him from forming a loving relationship with a woman.
OvernightDelivery: Yes. Pretty much every sexually active adult who has been with more than one person has had some form of HPV. The catch is that if you were with a hooker within the last few years, you still have it. I don't have any diseases, and the fact remains that HOOKERS ARE DISEASED. I don't care how tightly the industry is regulated where it's legal, and I don't care how often they are tested. The number of partners they have and the rate at which they have them means that you can safely assume that if you mess with one, you caught something. Same goes for rock stars and most pro athletes. When someone sleeps with hundreds, if not thousands of people in a year, there is just no way that they could be clean. No way. None.
Your words were: that a man who has been with a hooker in the past few years IS INFECTED. He is NOT "clean" and there is no way he can BE clean because it takes HPV several years to clear the body. You are saying he is in fact infected just because he was with a hooker. what if that hooker isn't infected? Is he infected because of his association with her? There comes a time when you have to use some common sense even if you don't want to... In the OP's question she mentioned having sex with an escort, she didn't mean having sex as a life style with an escort. I understood her to mean a one time thing.
Exactly. There are so many assumptions being made to suit certain people's personal beliefs that they interfere with the capacity to discuss things reasonably.
Exactly. There are so many assumptions being made to suit certain people's personal beliefs that they interfere with the capacity to discuss things reasonably.
Thank you! Some women just have a lot to say about relationships when they, themselves can't hold one together. If I were a woman I wouldn't be interested in a man who frequented hookers either, but if that wasn't his lifestyle and it happened once or twice I wouldn't be all upset about it. Happening a few days ago is also different than happening a few years ago. When I first wrote a post about my own thoughts I forgot there are some many experts on this forum that would be reading and expressing themselves also.
Thank you! Some women just have a lot to say about relationships when they, themselves can't hold one together. If I were a woman I wouldn't be interested in a man who frequented hookers either, but if that wasn't his lifestyle and it happened once or twice I wouldn't be all upset about it. Happening a few days ago is also different than happening a few years ago. When I first wrote a post about my own thoughts I forgot there are some many experts on this forum that would be reading and expressing themselves also.
That's fine that you wouldn't care if it had happened once or twice. I would.
Hive, there is no agenda here other than not wanting cervical cancer. It's not a matter of "personal belief." It's a matter of knowing statistics and what the risks are for sleeping with someone who has sex with 10 people a day. If anyone has an agenda here, it's the men who want to defend sleeping with hookers. They are conveniently denying the fact that they are putting their peens in women who may very well have just slept with a disease-riddled man not an hour before. It's really a dangerous thing to do.
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Thank you! Some women just have a lot to say about relationships when they, themselves can't hold one together. If I were a woman I wouldn't be interested in a man who frequented hookers either, but if that wasn't his lifestyle and it happened once or twice I wouldn't be all upset about it. Happening a few days ago is also different than happening a few years ago. When I first wrote a post about my own thoughts I forgot there are some many experts on this forum that would be reading and expressing themselves also.
Let's see, you've been divorced how many times? And how many relationships have you had in your life? So because someone ends a very long relationship, suddenly she "can't keep a relationship together?" Glass houses, pal.
Just one of many, many assumptions being thrown around.
Oh, come on. How do you think hookers manage to feed themselves and their habits after ol' pimpy takes his 80% from every $100 lay?
Oh, wait, let me guess, you're going to talk about "high-class escorts."
Please, 10 people a day, 10 people in a week, 10 people a month, doesn't matter. You sleep with a hooker, you have HPV. You can live in denial about the risk of doing so all you want, but that doesn't change reality. You're entitled to your own opinions, not your own facts.
Oh, come on. How do you think hookers manage to feed themselves and their habits after ol' pimpy takes his 80% from every $100 lay?
You're actually starting to embarrass yourself with some of your made up information.
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You're entitled to your own opinions, not your own facts.
Speaking of glass houses...
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