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I agree with you and I feel the same way about women who have had alot of partners I don't think they are sluts but I wouldn't date them.
Agreed, except it's men who've had tons of partners for me. it's mainly an ethics issue. You don't think someone is a bad person, but if they do or engage in certain things, it shows core beliefs are different, and for some, that makes a relationship difficult.
Like how some Atheists wouldn't date people who are Religious. Or the reverse
I think what bothers women is that men don't see prostitution the way they do and all I can say is women get over it. As long as there is men who trouble with women or sex it will be around so quit whining about stuff that doesn't concern you.
Who's whining? Simply stating that we won't date someone who goes to prostitutes or escorts isn't whining.
I think what bothers women is that men don't see prostitution the way they do and all I can say is women get over it. As long as there is men who trouble with women or sex it will be around so quit whining about stuff that doesn't concern you.
I take it you've never heard of human trafficking? Sexual slavery? Forced prostitution?
That affects everyone, as does the attitude toward women that men who frequent hookers develop, that of "get over it" in the face of criminal sexual activity.
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Originally Posted by Europeanflava
It should not be a issue since men don't get to live out
thier fantasies as often as women do. Let guys enjoy
thier life's too.
Exactly and even if they do its none of womens business anyway. Another thing that bothers me is when women bring up sexual slavery and human trafficking. I have actually dealt with prostitutes unlike some of these women on here and none of them were slaves or forced to do it. Its just a bunch of women who think if you can't get sex without paying for it you should stay celibate. As far as im concerned women shouldn't be asking about what happened before them and if they do they aren't worth dating anyway.
What, can't address me directly?
Of course they're not going to tell you they were trafficked. That would get them killed.
Look, if you've been with a hooker, you have at least a few strains of HPV. No doubt about it. As certain strains of HPV can cause cervical cancer, having sex with you is a risky proposition for women. So yes, it is a woman's business if you've been with hookers.
This whole thread is pointless to me, because let's be honest, how many men are going to admit to having been with an escort? Please...
Well I think you have to view it in context. I mean the thread was in the context of a virgin having his first sexual encounter with an escort, especially since many people often suggest an escort for an older virgin. I imagine if he were to have a girlfriend down the road and she asks him about the first time he had sex he may have to tell her that he lost his to an escort, although I guess he could also make up a story which she could never tell was untrue. The thread was designed to see how she would react or what she would think about it.
I get checked every six months im clean so your assuming what I have and no it isn't any womens business who I have slept with. Have you ever met a women who was a sex slave or was trafficked?
True. It's nobody's business, but women aren't wrong to have preferences. You say you don't want a woman with a high number of partners. That's none of your business, but you still have a preference to not date those kinds of women. So, same for women. If they don't wanna date a man that's been with hookers, it's a simple preference.
But the main thing that should matte to both parties is "Are they clean?" If so, the past stays in the past. Rarely do people volunteer this info anyhow. Usually it comes up when someone asks, in which case, it's their fault if they don't like what they hear.
Its a moot thread topic, as most guys aren't going to disclose that to a girl he's dating.
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