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Marriages end way before divorce papers are filled out.
My husband doesn't like me and I don't like him. He tolerates me as much as i tolerate him. Because I use my maiden name. He didn't know that I was actually married to my husband.
I understand criticism because yes I'm married and yes, I started talking to a guy a lot and developed a crush on him Its human nature. Maybe not the most acceptable in society, you know, to be married and have a crush on someone else. Its just that omg he's like the male version of me in many aspects.
Loves same literature, same quotes and understands them. Listens to the same music. Dress in similar style, ripped jeans, piercings, all that.
i am totally smitten by him, but i can put those feelings aside. Now im just wondering why he marks any message i had sent him as unread after many days it would be shown as read. i feel like he sends mixed signals, if hes trying to ignore me, why wouldnt he unfriend me or left me unfriended?
If you are tolerating each other...then just leave your husband.
You were wrong for allowing yourself to get emotionally attached to someone while still married. I assume you're young if you're making mistakes like this. It doesn't matter if your marriage is over emotionally or mentally....end it legally then go chasing after other men.
Marriages end way before divorce papers are filled out.
My husband doesn't like me and I don't like him. He tolerates me as much as i tolerate him. Because I use my maiden name. He didn't know that I was actually married to my husband.
I understand criticism because yes I'm married and yes, I started talking to a guy a lot and developed a crush on him Its human nature. Maybe not the most acceptable in society, you know, to be married and have a crush on someone else. Its just that omg he's like the male version of me in many aspects.
Loves same literature, same quotes and understands them. Listens to the same music. Dress in similar style, ripped jeans, piercings, all that.
i am totally smitten by him, but i can put those feelings aside. Now im just wondering why he marks any message i had sent him as unread after many days it would be shown as read. i feel like he sends mixed signals, if hes trying to ignore me, why wouldnt he unfriend me or left me unfriended?
It doesn't matter why he's doing what he's doing. He just did it. It really doesn't matter that you're in a dead marriage. Essentially, neither of these men like you and only one has the guts to cut ties.
First, there are a lot of "holes" in your original post. It is suspect as to the veracity of it. First it's your husband--then it's your boyfriend? There are other holes and inconsistencies.
Second--Research shows that social media creates a false sense of intimacy and false relationships. This FB and texting relationship you have with this man is false. It's based on some minor commonalities: music and dress. There are many aspects of a live relationship and live conversation that cannot be conveyed in the type of relationship you have described.
If ypur holding a football, youre gonna get tackled.. I say that because I guess since I wrote all this stuff, the doors of nasty criticism are left wide open.
He wasn't a pseudo boyfriend..nor did I see this guy like a boyfriend. It was just a crush that was developedbecause we started talking alot. It's normal..even when your married. I read about stuff like this all the time. No I don't act out on my feelings. A lot of my friends tell me that its possible that he just needs that time he needs and thats why he sorta pushed me away.
I know he still likes me, and i mean "like" in a general friendly term..because why when there was a website error and we were unfriended and blocked (I still have a feeling he did that because he wanted to see me and he pushes people away) why did he unblock me, why did he friend me again. We were magically unblocked and refriended the say he was nearby but leaving and going back home.
There are justsome tthings I don't understand, like the messaging thing why mark it unread. II'm very chill, laid back and would never ask him that but its just something i noticed. , I would question the same thing if this sort of read them unread stuff was coming from a friend That I had no crush on. So perhaps this should've went into non romantic relationships.
Please do not justify why you are having an emotional affair with this guy.
My parents were in an unhappy marriage from the 1970's to the mid 1980's when my mom filed for divorce.
My mom was not happy being in an unhappy marriage.
My father was not the best mate.
He would not show her affection.
He thought that affection was overrated.
He had several female friends all over the U.S. whom he would talk about at home.
He met these female friends while away on business trips. What he did with these female friends, who knows.
However...
My mom never had any affair while married. She ended her marriage.
So, OP, that is what you need to do before continuing this so called relationship with this guy.
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