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He's simply being smart not letting himself get involved with a woman who's married to one of his friends. Yes, he came on hot and heavy, but probably realized what he was getting himself into. I doubt this "fate" he speaks of involves breaking up a marriage.
The read/unread is him reading it quickly to see if anything crazy is in the message, then marking it unread so he doesn't have to respond, since to you it will look like he hasn't read the message yet. Regardless, he's being responsible here, for the both of you, respect that and let him go.
Last edited by introspectguy; 01-11-2015 at 10:06 AM..
Zentropa, no I didn't forget that I'm married to this guys friend. They knew each other like 10 years ago in school and they barely talk at all. There not even on each others friends list on any social media sites. This guy is more my friend than his. Because we had such lengthy conversations about life, he even said he probably knows me better than my own husband knows me.
Thanks introspectguy. His delaying fate talk had more to do with pushing people away. He said he wasn't denying fate, just delaying it. He had told me that he hasn't dated in 4 years. Doesn't want to, too much for him to handle and he needs to focus on his life and a girlfriend is just a distraction. He said he has pushed people away in the past and he's not denying fate , just delaying it.
He is still my friend, and yeah I have to let go of the idea of him and I together, like in a bf/gf relationship. Hes not ready for that and I'm not legally divorced. I think he is being responsible for both me and him because honestly, if we were to keep talking and skyping so much like we did, I can honestly say that this would have been more of a crush.
Zentropa, We were talking in a group chat. One of my husbands friends sent a group message out to a bunch of people, I was included in that and so was "my crush".
I mentioned my husbands name because my husband wasn't able to go to the event and neither was I..neither was my crush. So me and "my crush" started talking about the next concert date and we started talking about bands, music and then he messaged me by himself and we started talking from that day.
Djuna, we both live under the same roof...Although miles apart inside. (Sorry i had to. I love that song.lol)
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