how many gf/bf have you had? (friends, casual, sleeping)

[Jenna1343]

6 actual relationships, 5 guys, 1 girl. All relationships were over 2 years, longest was 6 years.

[vigueur2014]

More than most.

[Chowhound]

Four actual relationships, from 6 month to 23 yrs........

[newyorkergraduate]

17 that lasted more than a week up to a couple of years.
96 if you count one-night stands, flings or impulse moments.
1000 if you count paid-for services.

[meow3434]

Originally Posted by tht1guy

And if not how long?

When I was 16 I had a boyfriend for 3 months.

Longer term ones:

At 18 years old a boyfriend for two years. When I was 22 I was with a man for about a year and a half. Now I am 25 and my bf and I have been together for almost 9 months.

[Yiuppy]

London lasted six months in high school until I dumped him for cheating

Calvin lasted two weeks in college before dumping me (deserved it).

TJ lasted five years off and on before we just faded out from my losing interest.

Ian lasted six years off and on, between TJ, until he dumped me for not being serious.

Jason lasted four months before fading out on me and losing interest.

Patrick lasted a week after about a year of flirting with me and before two years of still flirting with me.

Hmm. Never thought about them so chronologically and how little time was spent.

[unfocused]

12 - first dates that didnt work out.
5 - went out 2-10 times casually, then it ended.
4 - girlfreinds, exclusive dating, lasted 5 months or more
2 - wives, one 4 yrs then divorce, 2nd 21 yrs together 15 married

[iknowftbll]

I've only had 4 serious girlfriends with whom I had a committed relationship for an appreciable amount of time. In between were a whole bunch of ONS, failed attempts, FWB type flings, etc. My fourth girlfriend is now my wife.

[IfICould]

3. I've only had sex with 2. I'm 28.

[Ashleyga]

I dated a guy in high school for 2 years, but it wasn't very serious. We were just friends that hung out a lot. We never had sex, either. My first serious boyfriend was during my senior year and into my freshman year of college. First person I was ever intimate with. We dated for a year and a 1/2. I'm almost 19!