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I wonder why a younger guy weather hooking up or dating an older woman is wrong :P?
Age its just a number
If age is just a number, you should be happy with women your own age. Instead, you are using age as a reason to objectify someone. My guess is that you are assuming they'll be flattered by the attention, as though you're doing them a favor. They're not. As I said, they can sniff that crap out a mile away.
Ever hear the phrase "If you have to ask, you can't afford it?" This is like that. If you have to ask how, you're not qualified. Sounds harsh, but there it is. The older a woman gets, the more she expects any man who approaches her to know what he's doing.
If age is just a number, you should be happy with women your own age. Instead, you are using age as a reason to objectify someone. My guess is that you are assuming they'll be flattered by the attention, as though you're doing them a favor. They're not. As I said, they can sniff that crap out a mile away.
Ever hear the phrase "If you have to ask, you can't afford it?" This is like that. If you have to ask how, you're not qualified. Sounds harsh, but there it is. The older a woman gets, the more she expects any man who approaches her to know what he's doing.
Great news thou me and an older lady are talking hopefully we get along well
If age is just a number, you should be happy with women your own age. Instead, you are using age as a reason to objectify someone. My guess is that you are assuming they'll be flattered by the attention, as though you're doing them a favor. They're not. As I said, they can sniff that crap out a mile away.
Ever hear the phrase "If you have to ask, you can't afford it?" This is like that. If you have to ask how, you're not qualified. Sounds harsh, but there it is. The older a woman gets, the more she expects any man who approaches her to know what he's doing.
Maybe he is attracted to older women and wants to experience being with one. Big deal. Two consenting adults. And just because a woman is older, does not mean she is worth more or has more to offer or is somehow better. Two people of different ages. But both human.
Maybe he is attracted to older women and wants to experience being with one.
A friend of mine summed it up nicely when she said, "I'm a human being, not an experience."
A shame you seem to miss that.
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Originally Posted by oh-eve
Why do you want to have such an older woman?
I get hit on by guys your age and always wonder why
Go read some forums frequented by glad lads and bodybuilders. Don't you know we're supposed to be uber-kinky and willing to let these guys do things women their own age won't let them do? It's all about sex and--say it with me--getting sexual experience. That's it.
And this is coming from someone whose ex-hub and ex-SO were 7-10 years younger. There is a difference between someone liking a woman who happens to be older and someone out there acting like a predator just to get some sex ed and treat a woman like a collection of holes.
A friend of mine summed it up nicely when she said, "I'm a human being, not an experience."
A shame you seem to miss that.
Go read some forums frequented by glad lads and bodybuilders. Don't you know we're supposed to be uber-kinky and willing to let these guys do things women their own age won't let them do? It's all about sex and--say it with me--getting sexual experience. That's it.
And this is coming from someone whose ex-hub and ex-SO were 7-10 years younger. There is a difference between someone liking a woman who happens to be older and someone out there acting like a predator just to get some sex ed and treat a woman like a collection of holes.
Easy does it arm-chair psychologist. His wanting to be with an older woman does not necessarily mean he views older women as being less than anyone else. Nice try at connecting imaginary dots.
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hopefully we get along well
