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Oh hell yes. Last summer. I was dating a woman for 10 months and considering marriage. We had a fight that proved to me that she was similar to my mother, ie: nothing I did would never be good enough. I was gone in a flash and never looked back. Thats new for me. Usually, I would stay in it too long, but now I'm old and can't afford a mistake.
You're not old, you're older.... were the same age abouts...
The difference is you're happily married. I'm struggling to find someone.
Well, I meant what I said on the bailing quick... that's bigger than you are allowing yourself credit for.... knowing when a situation isn't good and taking action, as opposed to just being passive and staying cause you're lonely or whatever.
Thanks Chow. I was proud of myself for that. In the past, scarcity mentality (there isn't anyone else out there for me) would have kept me there and miserable, like a lot of men. So I will give myself credit for that. Better to be alone than with the wrong woman. Funny that I can say that now.
I was with a guy who was extremely jealous and possessive, and verbally abusive. I strongly believe that if I married him it would have turned into physical abuse, as well.
I actually was married to someone like that. Almost remarried but the new one started drinking heavily and cheating, no thanks, I'm better off solo.
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