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Location: Los Angeles (Hancock Park), California USA
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Originally Posted by laorbust61
THIS.
Oh, my Lord..THANK YOU! I recently had a younger man approach me and ask for my number and tossed me this, "I'm so tired young women who act silly" Same guy proceeds to do NOTHING but text me. He has my number, he knows I'm single and all he wants to do is text. He is yet to ask me on a date. So he sees young women's "silliness and immaturity" but NOT his own.
Talk is cheap... This guy could simply have approached you as "sport." A game of "catch and release." Keeping you in his sights or on "the bench" so to speak in case something comes up. Giving you just enough attention where he's not forgotten, but you're not being bombarded. By no means do I condone this kind of crap, but I know it happens.
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Originally Posted by rego00123
So pick up the phone and call.
If no one answers stop answering back.
Games take two to play.
^This - Nothing wrong with reaching out and picking up the phone. I take this approach with women. I call, leave a message; if I don't hear back, the answer is already given and I move on. Simple...
I prefer men who have grown up and don't play silly games.
It sorta takes a silly game player to even notice these things in the first place. How would you know that someone takes longer to reply than you did unless you're measuring time stamps? Why would you be counting days and tracking patterns?
it doesn't bother me at all, although I would like to hear from him every day......I just find it funny - it's like he's holding himself back from texting me every day and deliberately sending one every other day.
I agree it does seem almost like a game...like let me make her wait a day between texts. I feel I'm getting too old for this crap...sad part is, he's older than me! But this is nothing serious, so I'm mostly amused by it.
Glad to know I'm not the only one who has noticed this phenomenon. LOL
I think the OP is over-thinking this... guy could be shy and not want to seem like he is coming on too strong... something a lot of women dislike
Seems we men cant win sometimes... too much and "we are smothering them", too little and "he's not interested in me" or my favorite "playing games" ???
I think the OP is over-thinking this... guy could be shy and not want to seem like he is coming on too strong... something a lot of women dislike
Seems we men cant win sometimes... too much and "we are smothering them", too little and "he's not interested in me" or my favorite "playing games" ???
Oh he's definitely NOT shy! that I can say for certain.
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