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Some guys just don't like using a condom. If he was just with you to fool around and he couldn't enjoy it to fool around the way he wants to, what's the point on his end? I guess in the future, you can carry one yourself.
As a defense for the guy though, if you were a hookup and sent me out to get condoms (assuming I didn't have any one me, which I would), I'd bail too. Not worth the time/effort to get laid.
Wait, what?
I guess it must be a heck of a lot easier than it was when I was single.
Some guys just don't like using a condom. If he was just with you to fool around and he couldn't enjoy it to fool around the way he wants to, what's the point on his end? I guess in the future, you can carry one yourself.
Carrying one herself wouldn't change someone balking at using one if the "just doesn't like to," though.
She (a virgin when I met her) actually said to me a week or two back she's glad she went on the pill since natural feels better to her.
That being said, I put the blame equally on both. The girl for not being upfront and prepared herself and the guy for not bringing one.
As a defense for the guy though, if you were a hookup and sent me out to get condoms (assuming I didn't have any one me, which I would), I'd bail too. Not worth the time/effort to get laid.
He said he would go get one. I asked if that's what he really wanted to do and he said yes and left.
You mentioned in a previous post that you want to feel attractive and desired. That's good, we all want to feel that way. But does having a fwb really make you feel attractive or would it make you feel used? You can feel attractive and desired in many many ways, the least feasible way is depending on the opinions of others because people change. Eat well, exercise moderately, read, write, go to theaters... just love yourself.
He said he would go get one. I asked if that's what he really wanted to do and he said yes and left.
And really....too much trouble?! Smh
I don't know where you live. But for me, that would involve getting dressed, driving probably 2-3 miles, going in, buying condoms, going home. Probably a 20-25 minute ordeal. After which, you may not be in the mood anymore.
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