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Old 08-04-2015, 06:35 AM
 
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Not really drama per say, just an observation. My boyfriend recently liked some photos of several ladies on Facebook. One was a picture of a girl showing her behind in a tight dress and another of a girl in a dress showing her cleavage. Now, this wouldn't bother me if it weren't for the fact that he's not active on facebook. He rarely comments/post/like pictures, maybe once or twice every few months. So the "likes" on these pictures are so out of the blue to me. Maybe I'm being immature and overreacting over something this silly, but I can't help but feel jealous and wonder still. Our relationship is going well aside from this. I'm starting to doubt him though, like could he be private messaging these girls too?
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Old 08-04-2015, 06:42 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Just post your own "butt and cleavage" pic and see what he says.
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Old 08-04-2015, 06:44 AM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Have some trust in your Bf!

Besides, theres nothing wrong with liking a couple T&A pics on FB
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Old 08-04-2015, 06:47 AM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Just post your own "butt and cleavage" pic and see what he says.
C'mon now, thats different, W4L. Lol
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Old 08-04-2015, 06:49 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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C'mon now, thats different, W4L. Lol
Ya, kind of a joke, but I mean, what is she gonna do?? Like you said, she SHOULD trust her BF.

OP, you've noticed behavior that YOU think is unusual, but for some reason your mind is running with it from "liking on FB" to the possibility that he's messaging the FB hotties.

OP, do you know the women in the photos?
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Old 08-04-2015, 06:54 AM
 
Location: New Yawk
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Meh, I'm a firm adherent to the "Look/Like but don't touch" rule. Although I'd play along and start liking the male eye-candy on Facebook... maybe leave a few drops of fake drool on my keyboard.
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Old 08-04-2015, 07:36 AM
 
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Meh, I'm a firm adherent to the "Look/Like but don't touch" rule. Although I'd play along and start liking the male eye-candy on Facebook... maybe leave a few drops of fake drool on my keyboard.
Or powder donut remnants.

The OP is going to self-destruct this relationship.

Imagining your boyfriend doing something that hasn't happened is wrong.

Shaking the back of a pilot while he is flying the plane screaming, "We're gunna crash aren't we?!?! AREN'T WEEE?!?!?" Is pretty much the same thing.
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Old 08-04-2015, 07:41 AM
 
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Not really drama per say, just an observation. My boyfriend recently liked some photos of several ladies on Facebook. One was a picture of a girl showing her behind in a tight dress and another of a girl in a dress showing her cleavage. Now, this wouldn't bother me if it weren't for the fact that he's not active on facebook. He rarely comments/post/like pictures, maybe once or twice every few months. So the "likes" on these pictures are so out of the blue to me. Maybe I'm being immature and overreacting over something this silly, but I can't help but feel jealous and wonder still. Our relationship is going well aside from this. I'm starting to doubt him though, like could he be private messaging these girls too?
Yes you are being immature and overreacting.

People like to look at attractive human bodies. Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar.
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Old 08-04-2015, 08:12 AM
 
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Ya, kind of a joke, but I mean, what is she gonna do?? Like you said, she SHOULD trust her BF.

OP, you've noticed behavior that YOU think is unusual, but for some reason your mind is running with it from "liking on FB" to the possibility that he's messaging the FB hotties.

OP, do you know the women in the photos?
No I don't. I have trust issues with people cheating (saw it in my parent's marriage, brother's, and sister's.) I don't mind him looking, I really don't. I look at attractive guys if I see one passing by, but I always keep it to myself. Just the act of him "liking" the photos is kinda like telling a woman IRL he thinks she's attractive, which isn't ok to me.
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Old 08-04-2015, 08:13 AM
 
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Yes you are being immature and overreacting.

People like to look at attractive human bodies. Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar.
Unless it's Bill Clinton's cigar and your name is Monica.....
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