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Virginity over the age of 30 for either gender would be very weird for me and probably a deal breaker. I say this because by 30, pretty much anyone who wants to have sex will have had sex, even if they aren't considered to be among society's more attractive members. Let's face it - for the vast majority of people the biggest pool of potential sexual partners they will ever in their lifetime have access to is when they're in their teens and 20s.
Beyond 30, unless someone is significantly physically or mentally disabled, if someone is still a virgin they almost certainly have some type of emotional and/or mental issues of the level that would require significant amounts of therapy and/or medication to resolve. Since I have no desire to get into a relationship with someone who has emotional issues or is mentally ill, I would likely pass on dating any over 30 virgins.
The only over 30 virgins I've known were either disabled, extremely socially inept because of mental issues, or 250 lbs overweight.
What about the people who believe in remaining virgins until marriage by religious beliefs?
Virginity over the age of 30 for either gender would be very weird for me and probably a deal breaker. I say this because by 30, pretty much anyone who wants to have sex will have had sex, even if they aren't considered to be among society's more attractive members. Let's face it - for the vast majority of people the biggest pool of potential sexual partners they will ever in their lifetime have access to is when they're in their teens and 20s.
Beyond 30, unless someone is significantly physically or mentally disabled, if someone is still a virgin they almost certainly have some type of emotional and/or mental issues of the level that would require significant amounts of therapy and/or medication to resolve. Since I have no desire to get into a relationship with someone who has emotional issues or is mentally ill, I would likely pass on dating any over 30 virgins.
The only over 30 virgins I've known were either disabled, extremely socially inept because of mental issues, or 250 lbs overweight.
Not necessarily true.
I'm 25 (so still 5 years away from your supposed age you picked), and am neither disabled, extremely socially inept, nor overweight, and am still a virgin.
Not all virgins over 30 have any of the issues you stated.
What about the people who believe in remaining virgins until marriage by religious beliefs?
They just glare at you 12 years later. vvv
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Originally Posted by DelightfulNYC
I ran into her when I was 39 and she had the devil stare like she wanted to kill me. She never married or had kids and it was all my fault in her mind.
Seriously, though, someone who is waiting until marriage would not be right for me, so no, I would not date him. He needs to find someone who shares his beliefs, and that would not be me.
Virginity over the age of 30 for either gender would be very weird for me and probably a deal breaker. I say this because by 30, pretty much anyone who wants to have sex will have had sex, even if they aren't considered to be among society's more attractive members. Let's face it - for the vast majority of people the biggest pool of potential sexual partners they will ever in their lifetime have access to is when they're in their teens and 20s.
Beyond 30, unless someone is significantly physically or mentally disabled, if someone is still a virgin they almost certainly have some type of emotional and/or mental issues of the level that would require significant amounts of therapy and/or medication to resolve. Since I have no desire to get into a relationship with someone who has emotional issues or is mentally ill, I would likely pass on dating any over 30 virgins.
The only over 30 virgins I've known were either disabled, extremely socially inept because of mental issues, or 250 lbs overweight.
Surely you jest. How many over thirty virgins do you actually know? I'm guessing three and yet you paint all with the same brush. Nice blanket statement with absolutely no basis in fact.
The only over 30 virgins I've known were either disabled, extremely socially inept because of mental issues, or 250 lbs overweight.
I only know one 35+ virgin and he is pretty socially inept to a creepy point, and is past the point of no return with that balding head and minimalist living situation.
I'll bring your 30 number down to 21, but 23 or 24 is more appropriate as there are a lot of "late bloomers" out there. So... if you haven't been laid by your 24th birthday then you need to start looking inward.
And I'm not buying the whole religious excuse. The socially normal religious folks are horny like anyone else, find each other, and get married young & fast so they can bang guilt-free. Happens all the time.
I only know one 35+ virgin and he is pretty socially inept to a creepy point, and is past the point of no return with that balding head and minimalist living situation.
I'll bring your 30 number down to 21, but 23 or 24 is more appropriate as there are a lot of "late bloomers" out there. So... if you haven't been laid by your 24th birthday then you need to start looking inward.
And I'm not buying the whole religious excuse. The socially normal religious folks are horny like anyone else, find each other, and get married young & fast so they can bang guilt-free. Happens all the time.
Can't it just mean you haven't wanted to get laid, haven't found anyone, bad luck, etc?
I find it funny how if you're a virgin, there must be something wrong with you.
Also, plenty of people in their mid 20's-late 20's are virgins. Some by choice.
I only know one 35+ virgin and he is pretty socially inept to a creepy point, and is past the point of no return with that balding head and minimalist living situation.
I'll bring your 30 number down to 21, but 23 or 24 is more appropriate as there are a lot of "late bloomers" out there. So... if you haven't been laid by your 24th birthday then you need to start looking inward.
And I'm not buying the whole religious excuse. The socially normal religious folks are horny like anyone else, find each other, and get married young & fast so they can bang guilt-free. Happens all the time.
Oh great here's another one. He knows only one over 35 virgin and yet he claims to be an expert on all of them. He knows nothing about their circumstances yet he tells them they need to look inward. It would be laughable if it wasn't pathetic.
Here's a clue d.a. most older virgins are that way because of at least one of the following: bad luck, not attractive enough, it just never happened, and/or just not being what the opposite sex is looking for. Not everyone gets a shot at sex and relationships, that's life. To go around saying everyone has sex and relationships and by a certain age is nothing short of fairy tales.
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