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Old 09-19-2015, 07:00 AM
 
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I've joined online dating ..hope to meet someone nice.
Applying for new jobs and just moved into a new apartment so trying to get motivated
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Old 09-19-2015, 07:01 AM
 
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Oh good LORD. Get over it already. Guys have sex with girls and never see them again....ALL THE TIME. When will women learn??
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Old 09-19-2015, 07:02 AM
 
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Maybe these guys shouldn't pretend they love the women then and spend years filling their heads with rubbish maybe then us women would know where we stand.
Or if they were straight and said it's just sex then we would know !!!
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Old 09-19-2015, 07:07 AM
 
Location: Canada
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Maybe these guys shouldn't pretend they love the women then and spend years filling their heads with rubbish maybe then us women would know where we stand.
Or if they were straight and said it's just sex then we would know !!!
Yet despite all that, he managed to get a GF, who is not you, and create a baby with her. I think that would have been my sign to move along.
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Old 09-19-2015, 07:15 AM
 
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Believe me I tried ..then he would come back on the scene
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Old 09-19-2015, 07:15 AM
 
Location: New Yawk
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Maybe these guys shouldn't pretend they love the women then and spend years filling their heads with rubbish maybe then us women would know where we stand.
Or if they were straight and said it's just sex then we would know !!!
Lesson learned: keep your guard up, and don't be a fool by expecting people to do right by you. Oh, and don't **** someone else's man.
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Old 09-19-2015, 07:22 AM
 
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Believe me I tried ..then he would come back on the scene
So what? You couldn't tell him to back off and go home to his GF and baby?

Face it, you made a lousy choice that is having negative consequences for you now. This is one of those life lessons that you just learned the hard way. And when that happens, you kick yourself for it, and then move on, having learned from the experience and vowing to never make that mistake again. Or the path you're on right now, feel sorry for yourself and hope he comes back so you can allow it to happen again. Who do you want to be?
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Old 09-19-2015, 07:30 AM
 
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Deffo don't want to be the victim.
I guess there is guys out there who would treat me better.
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Old 09-19-2015, 09:26 AM
 
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Here is my reply.

Both of you were in the wrong. You are not innocent.

You cheated.

He cheated.

Behind his girlfriend's back.

Both of you do not need to be involved in any type of relationship.

And if I was the guys girlfriend, and I found out what happened, I would give both of you a piece of my mind.

give you a piece of my mind: To tell someone frankly *in an honest and direct way* what one thinks about something, especially when angry.

Now... go your separate ways and forget about contacting each other.
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Old 09-19-2015, 09:42 AM
 
Location: New Yawk
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Deffo don't want to be the victim.
I guess there is guys out there who would treat me better.
1. You are not a victim
2. When you choose to have sex with someone else's man, you are making it clear that you do not deserve to be treated better
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