Is sleeping with a friend ended our friendship? (girlfriend, girls, lover)
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Basically we were friends,things sometimes got flirty.
He has a gf and 2 twin girls 4 months old.
He and gf got back together after the girls were born.
We could talk about anything and everything but I knew it could never go any further.
Then one day we did and slept together.
We went out one day as friends an it actually felt like we were together.
So easy and comfortable.
I know he doesn't love his gf anymore but I know he has to stay a family for his kids and I don't want t ruin it I just want his friendship back.
We knew if we slept together our friendship would be screwed.
We both find each other attractive and il be honest when we are together it's hard to keep each hands off each other ,touching hands or he will hug me and smell my hair.
He knows he's played with fire.
Anyway we haven't talked and he has re activated his Facebook but not added me.
I'm devastated tbh ..I miss him.
We could of stayed such good friends.
We are so comfortable together.
He told me he loves me..he told me he doesn't want me as a side piece.
Is our friendship over ? Does he hate me ?
Obviously, you want the man for a lover, not a friend. But your picker is busted. You want a guy with kids and a gf. You're going to have a lot of problems in life if this is what you want, and you'll deserve all of them.
I want our friendship back.
I know a realtionship isn't going to happen.
You said above that you can't keep your hands off one another. I don't think you want your friendship back. I suspect you want to go back to talking and flirting and kissing and touching and whoops! Accidentally had sex again. How did THAT happen?
No I know now that was all wrong and it's now put him in a difficult position.
There was a time we got on without all those stupid "extras"
Maybe he doesn't want me as a friend anymore.
We used to work together and have lots of mutual friends
I miss him I would gladly take a friendship which didn't involve more than friends
I would never sleep with him again.
I just don't understand why he doesn't even want a friendship with me after all the years.
..because he cannot separate the friendship feelings from the romantic ones and his self preservation instinct says it is better to have no contact because friendly contact = pain.
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