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Come on, if the guy is super hot, and was interested, he would have already asked. You are kind of scary, you know way too much coincidentally..stop acting like a 7th grader with a crush, go up, ask him, and see what happens. If he isn't interested, get over it, but the longer you wait, and over think, the harder it will be to forget. If he is interested, you will start sooner, then you can wonder and find out, why the super fit/hot guy, didn't have the balls to talk to you with all the chances...
You're nearly 40 but are acting Iike a high school girl. If he's that good looking and doesn't like kids, it seems hopeless. I feel sorry for the next guy you date. You'll be comparing him to this guy, and he probably won't add up. I would just give it a shot and if it doesn't work out just move on. My guess is its easier for you to not try so you can keep the fantasy alive. No shame in that, but it's going to be up to you to try. He knows he's good looking and doesn't need to do any of the work. Good luck.
Fantasy is over. I can (barely) handle a boring personality with no sense of humor, but I can't handle a heartless one, and he's all of those things. Sad to see such physical beauty wasted when someone's inner self is so unattractive. Why do they always come this way?
Fantasy is over. I can (barely) handle a boring personality with no sense of humor, but I can't handle a heartless one, and he's all of those things. Sad to see such physical beauty wasted when someone's inner self is so unattractive. Why do they always come this way?
Come on, if the guy is super hot, and was interested, he would have already asked. You are kind of scary, you know way too much coincidentally..stop acting like a 7th grader with a crush, go up, ask him, and see what happens. If he isn't interested, get over it, but the longer you wait, and over think, the harder it will be to forget. If he is interested, you will start sooner, then you can wonder and find out, why the super fit/hot guy, didn't have the balls to talk to you with all the chances...
Yep this^^^.
OP I am now an old bag but was hot, what men like kinda hot, for years and years and I promise you if you were in his league, he'd approach YOU. I never once had to make a first move. I never understand this "does he like me?? should I ask him out??" thing; guys are not subtle, if they like you they make it plain.
He's 30, super hot, do you really think he'd want you at 39, even if you are a great looking 39, when he can easily get super hot 19-25y/o? Not a bimbo, a grad student maybe? With brains and youth and looks? And no kid?
You may be overestimating your appeal and underestimating his pool of potential partners.
Heartless why?
If he indeed rejected you and was honest about it that is a KINDNESS.
A heartless prick would have strung you along for ego boosting purposes and then dumped you after you put out.
Fantasy is over. I can (barely) handle a boring personality with no sense of humor, but I can't handle a heartless one, and he's all of those things. Sad to see such physical beauty wasted when someone's inner self is so unattractive. Why do they always come this way?
You may be overestimating your appeal and underestimating his pool of potential partners.
Isn't this the case with many forum members?
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I can (barely) handle a boring personality with no sense of humor, but I can't handle a heartless one, and he's all of those things. Sad to see such physical beauty wasted when someone's inner self is so unattractive. Why do they always come this way?
