Just turned 40 is life over for happiness?

[JasperJade]

Originally Posted by Asgardian

To other people's point, do what makes you happy, we all after all want companionship. You have your act together so all I can tell you is do what makes you happy.

Things do happen when they should. I take my example where I dated and dated and somehow couldn't find the right gal. I was getting a lot of gold diggers or those with ex hang up issues. Some were married women, some were single.

I wouldn't want to go back to my 20's. I have learn so much more and matured a lot. Looks like you're in the same boat. As far as dating younger women, it's like anything else in dating, it's a crapshoot. Younger women generally are al over the place and many do not know what they are even looking for. They most likely want a b/f that they can brag about to their g/f's .


So enjoy your freedom while you can and at 40 life is just beginning for you

That's pretty much it in a nutshell. Forty is a great age: You still have plenty of energy, you're established in your career, and you have the wisdom of experience and age but the aches and pains haven't really kicked in yet. There's a reason they say "Life begins at 40," so enjoy!

[Yamaha music favfan]

Originally Posted by JasperJade

That's pretty much it in a nutshell. Forty is a great age: You still have plenty of energy, you're established in your career, and you have the wisdom of experience and age but the aches and pains haven't really kicked in yet. There's a reason they say "Life begins at 40," so enjoy!

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[mlj1225]

Originally Posted by SinaloaPaisa

Why would he want a woman who is 40 who has most likely hit the wall and lost her sexual appeal? And if not, will be hitting it in 5-10 years.

Much better to get a woman who is 25-30 imo.

You have no idea what you are talking about.

[svendrell]

Originally Posted by SinaloaPaisa

Why would he want a woman who is 40 who has most likely hit the wall and lost her sexual appeal? And if not, will be hitting it in 5-10 years.

Much better to get a woman who is 25-30 imo.

There are mature young women out there between the ages of 18 and 24 too, so plenty of options.

[SomeGuyInFairfax]

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Originally Posted by SinaloaPaisa
"Why would he want a woman who is 40 who has most likely hit the wall and lost her sexual appeal? And if not, will be hitting it in 5-10 years.

In my experience, ever since I was a teenager, the most appealing women -- sexually or otherwise -- have always been over 35 and the appeal becomes strongest at around 40. Life experience, self-assuredness, self-acceptance, wisdom, etc. are qualities that younger women simply have not lived long enough to acquire.

If you are basing "sexual appeal" on purely physical factors, remember that a lot of young women are i n awful physical shape, and you must to include them in that "lost sexual appeal" group too.