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How is he making you feel crappy? Your self-worth should withstand a lack of phone calls.
If you want validation, that's YOUR problem to solve. Then you have to figure out if you have low self-esteem that you're trying to get him to cure by giving you constant attention.
But if you feel like he's disrespecting you by ignoring your requests, that's on him.
I simply feel like his behavior isn't reflective of someone that cares about and respects someone else.
Then why won't he just breakup with me? I mean I'm starting to lose interest in him because of how crappy he's making me feel.
Oh honey...
He doesn't break up with you because it's easier for him that you just gradually get more frustrated and eventually fade away (he's not the bad guy this way, he doesn't have to officially "make a decision," if it's your idea there may be fewer tears and so on) and because in the meantime, you are companionship when he feels like it.
Time to go. And find somebody who is such a better match than you and this guy. Somebody who will want to call you...and call you again...and again.
He doesn't break up with you because it's easier for him that you just gradually get more frustrated and eventually fade away (he's not the bad guy this way, he doesn't have to officially "make a decision," if it's your idea there may be fewer tears and so on) and because in the meantime, you are companionship when he feels like it.
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He might be confused in between numbers "which one called" OP don't waste your time ask him to get lost. My present ex was that sort of boyfriend. I was trapped in for his saying "I care but I don't do shows" I don't think you should waste your time on him.
Your boyfriend might be like me. I just don't like to talk on the phone. What do you talk about when you call? Is it just a "how's your day going?" type conversation? Because I find those ridiculously annoying, especially if I'm busy.
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