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Old 02-04-2016, 09:48 AM
 
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So what? Plenty of people have their ex-SOs and even ex-spouses on their FB lists.

My suggestion is to work on your insecurity. She's with you now. That's what matters.
I don't have my ex wife as a friend on facebook!
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Old 02-04-2016, 09:56 AM
 
Location: southwestern PA
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Okay.... that is YOUR choice.
Just like whoever she has or does not have as a friend is HER choice.

You already have a failed marriage. Unless you correct your behavior, you are doomed to failed relationships.
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Old 08-30-2016, 01:25 PM
 
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Update: she still has this guy as a friend on facebook and doesn't want to unfriend him! And worst, I know she has other guys she had sex with on facebook as well and I don't want to know who they are. Thinking about breaking up, don't want to see her again!! I'm done!
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Old 08-30-2016, 01:27 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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Update: she still has this guy as a friend on facebook and doesn't want to unfriend him! And worst, I know she has other guys she had sex with on facebook as well and I don't want to know who they are. Thinking about breaking up, don't want to see her again!! I'm done!
About time

How do you know she's had sex with the other blokes if you don't know who? Did she tell you that she has or are you speculating?
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Old 08-30-2016, 01:31 PM
 
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Your relationship has too many issues going on to count. Some your own and some her own, I don't even know where to begin addressing your issues with this situation anymore.

literally, I can not remember everything you have posted about it at this point in time without going back and giving myself a refresher

You're driving yourself insane by remaining in it and plotting through life with someone you don't want to place trust in.

All I can to everything thus far is if you don't trust the person you are trying to have a relationship with, what's the point of it all?

That's the question you have to ask yourself
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Old 08-30-2016, 01:39 PM
 
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About time

How do you know she's had sex with the other blokes if you don't know who? Did she tell you that she has or are you speculating?
I just know about two guys, but I know there is others too but the others I don't know who! My girlfriend is an ex ****!
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Old 08-30-2016, 01:40 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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I just know about two guys, but I know there is others too but the others I don't know who! My girlfriend is an ex ****!
Okay..... When are you ending it?
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Old 08-30-2016, 01:57 PM
 
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I don't like this and she knows we always fight about this and I'm thinking about breaking up! No more dating girls who keep other guys as a backup plan!
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Old 08-30-2016, 01:58 PM
 
Location: southwestern PA
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I'm done!
We have heard that before....
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Old 08-30-2016, 02:01 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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I don't like this and she knows we always fight about this and I'm thinking about breaking up! No more dating girls who keep other guys as a backup plan!
They are not a back up plan.... We all or most have contact with someone that we've known romantically in the past and kept platonic.
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