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Old 01-27-2016, 12:25 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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When i confronted her and asked who is the guy she didn't want to to tell me but i kept asking and after the third time i asked she told me his name. That day we had a fight i almost broke up with her, she cried a lot. She was very sad because i don't trust her.
Mate your seriously putting all your issues on her and worst of all your taking them out on her

She's done nothing wrong at all!.
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Old 01-27-2016, 12:25 PM
 
Location: between Mars and Venus
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Ask her straight why she's keeping him as friend. Often people enroll exes or whatever to increase popular statistics on there.
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Old 01-27-2016, 12:28 PM
 
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Ask her straight why she's keeping him as friend. Often people enroll exes or whatever to increase popular statistics on there.
Or because they want to leave that door to getting back with the ex cracked open. You know, just in case.
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Old 01-27-2016, 12:28 PM
 
Location: DFW
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Mate your seriously putting all your issues on her and worst of all your taking them out on her

She's done nothing wrong at all!.
He's not worth the drama. Talk about insecure.
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Old 01-27-2016, 12:29 PM
 
Location: Canada
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When i confronted her and asked who is the guy she didn't want to to tell me but i kept asking and after the third time i asked she told me his name. That day we had a fight i almost broke up with her, she cried a lot. She was very sad because i don't trust her.
Why on earth are you having confrontations about her friend list on FB? And why she hasn't dumped you by now is beyond me.
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Old 01-27-2016, 12:31 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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She was very sad because i don't trust her.
You don't. And that is very bad.

https://www.city-data.com/forum/relat...lf-esteem.html

https://www.city-data.com/forum/relat...ions-male.html

https://www.city-data.com/forum/relat...d-had-sex.html

Look ^^^ at your legacy here. Are you proud of this? Do you realize how damaging it is for a person to be in a relationship with someone who behaves the way you do???

You have serious emotional problems, and you need serious therapy. I am amazed that this woman is sticking around for the abuse you heap on her, but that is apparently her choice.

But I am appealing to the healthy part of you that I hope is there to end this relationship and get some help to become a person who understands what love is and is mature and self-confident enough to share it.
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Old 01-27-2016, 12:33 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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He's not worth the drama. Talk about insecure.
I felt sorry for him at first hence my first post in this thread but after reading the one I just quoted ........

Mikala just got it spot on its borderline abusive and that's not on in any instance
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Old 01-27-2016, 12:37 PM
 
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Mate your seriously putting all your issues on her and worst of all your taking them out on her

She's done nothing wrong at all!.
Are you sure she's done nothing wrong? I don't know!
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Ask her straight why she's keeping him as friend. Often people enroll exes or whatever to increase popular statistics on there.
She says there's not anything wrong about having him as a friend on facebook list.
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Or because they want to leave that door to getting back with the ex cracked open. You know, just in case.
Yeah that's another problem.
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Why on earth are you having confrontations about her friend list on FB? And why she hasn't dumped you by now is beyond me.
Is about a guy, not about all her friends list.
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You don't. And that is very bad.

https://www.city-data.com/forum/relat...lf-esteem.html

https://www.city-data.com/forum/relat...ions-male.html

https://www.city-data.com/forum/relat...d-had-sex.html

Look ^^^ at your legacy here. Are you proud of this? Do you realize how damaging it is for a person to be in a relationship with someone who behaves the way you do???

You have serious emotional problems, and you need serious therapy. I am amazed that this woman is sticking around for the abuse you heap on her, but that is apparently her choice.

But I am appealing to the healthy part of you that I hope is there to end this relationship and get some help to become a person who understands what love is and is mature and self-confident enough to share it.
It doesn't matter my previous posts. Every user here has previous posts. I believe this forum is for sharing our problems in relationships! It doesn't matter if i have 10, 30 threads...
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Old 01-27-2016, 12:40 PM
 
Location: southwestern PA
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And those threads show a pattern of behavior.
You need professional help.

Please break it off with this girlfriend before you totally mess her up...
You need to work on yourself before you date anyone else.
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Old 01-27-2016, 12:42 PM
 
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You guys are calling me sick, crazy , that i need therapy...you don't know what i've been through. Don't understand my past, how much i've suffered in my entire love life!
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