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Old 01-27-2016, 06:50 PM
 
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Drugs or alcohol? No i don't!
You're not alone, try if this helps

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Old 01-27-2016, 06:54 PM
 
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Before she monkey branches back to this guy, throw her in your wake.
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Old 01-28-2016, 12:04 PM
 
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You don't. And that is very bad.

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Look ^^^ at your legacy here. Are you proud of this? Do you realize how damaging it is for a person to be in a relationship with someone who behaves the way you do???

You have serious emotional problems, and you need serious therapy. I am amazed that this woman is sticking around for the abuse you heap on her, but that is apparently her choice.

But I am appealing to the healthy part of you that I hope is there to end this relationship and get some help to become a person who understands what love is and is mature and self-confident enough to share it.
Oh, yeah. What ever happened with the coaching sessions?
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Old 01-28-2016, 12:05 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Oh, yeah. What ever happened with the coaching sessions?
I was afraid to ask.
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Old 01-28-2016, 12:10 PM
 
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Anyway thanks for all you support on helping me! I know i've got real serious issues but about my girlfriend i think i have a right to be concerned about this guy as her facebook friend. Well, it doesn't matter right now, if she's having sex with him i hope i find out quickly so i can dump her for real!
I can't see a therapist because is very expensive and i can't afford right now! So i don't have any exit...What i should do? Single for the rest of my life because i'll never be strong enough to overcome this ****!

Yes, obviously you cannot handle someone having a past and it is not your place to *punish* anyone.
There are numerous facilities in almost every city that provide therapy and counciling at a reduced cost or free depending on your circumstances. Seek professional help and stay out of any type of romantic relationship until you can control yourself.
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Old 01-28-2016, 12:10 PM
 
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Oh, yeah. What ever happened with the coaching sessions?
She's not doing anymore because was only for a few months and now she would have to pay it.
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Old 01-28-2016, 12:14 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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She's not doing anymore because was only for a few months and now she would have to pay it.
So she didn't cheat on you with him?
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Old 01-28-2016, 12:22 PM
 
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So she didn't cheat on you with him?
I don't know.
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Old 01-28-2016, 12:34 PM
 
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I don't know.
Yet, both of you survived and you are still in a relationship with her.
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Old 01-28-2016, 12:54 PM
 
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Man up dude.
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