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Update: He broke up with the woman last night. Told her he was not faithful and did not deserve her affection and it would be best if they no longer see each other.
Truer words! It took years for me to overcome the inclination you describe above, blind to what is in front of you. And it's not just when it comes to a partner's infidelity - along with that usually comes a lot of other antisocial and destructive tendencies. Now I have 'tools' in my toolbox, to counteract my inclination to blindness.
Some of those tools:
1. Am I 'filling in the blanks' myself, or am I asking him directly about the things I'm uncertain about?
2. How do his words and actions make me feel about myself?
3. Does he inspire me to be the best possible person I can be?
4. (This is the most important one) If I were a man, would I want to be just like him?
I know some women like to 'groom' their partners into their ideal man. I'm not interested in that at all. I don't want a fixer upper project, I want a man who comes ready. At my age (and I expect him to be within the five year range, give or take, of my own age) he should have his life together. I feel for the younger generation, 'failure to launch' seems to be a commonplace occurrence. Nowadays it's Netflix and chill.
I'm not sure what this one person's behavior has to do with an entire generation.
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Originally Posted by Astral_Weeks
Update: He broke up with the woman last night. Told her he was not faithful and did not deserve her affection and it would be best if they no longer see each other.
Well it is easy to be honest after you get what you want.
Update: He broke up with the woman last night. Told her he was not faithful and did not deserve her affection and it would be best if they no longer see each other.
Is he going to be with the other woman? Is she preggers?
I wonder why people concern about other people lives this much. Well some are behavioral disorders, addictions or what ever you can call it. I don't think any one put up with cheating and sleeping around other people with their own will. And I am sure the woman does not know what is happening behind her back.
As it turns out, the other woman is NOT pregnant, apparently she really was on the pill. He is no longer seeing either lady.
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