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I was once dumped by a girl I didn't even know we were together
met at bar, I was 24...hung out a few times...slept together a few times...never really called and dated, just ran into each other and hung out, hooked up
some time went by and I had forgotten about her and out of the blue she calls me and lets me down very easy...she was very delicate with dumping me...as I sat and listened to her diatribe, an evil thought entered my mind, as obviously TO ME this girl was full of herself and I was expected to be crushed, devastated, heartbroken, disheveled, and ruined...all at once
when she finished, and asked if I was ok...I told her no, and that I was going to kill myself...I even elaborated with how destroyed I was
she finally responds with "dude....we bought each other drinks and slept together a few times...that's it"
I shouted "exactly, psycho" and hung up...I felt bad for joking about suicide as it isn't funny...but she earned it
I was once dumped by a girl I didn't even know we were together
met at bar, I was 24...hung out a few times...slept together a few times...never really called and dated, just ran into each other and hung out, hooked up
some time went by and I had forgotten about her and out of the blue she calls me and lets me down very easy...she was very delicate with dumping me...as I sat and listened to her diatribe, an evil thought entered my mind, as obviously TO ME this girl was full of herself and I was expected to be crushed, devastated, heartbroken, disheveled, and ruined...all at once
when she finished, and asked if I was ok...I told her no, and that I was going to kill myself...I even elaborated with how destroyed I was
she finally responds with "dude....we bought each other drinks and slept together a few times...that's it"
I shouted "exactly, psycho" and hung up...I felt bad for joking about suicide as it isn't funny...but she earned it
I'm still not quite getting how someone trying to be kind to you because she doesn't KNOW how you feel/how you'll respond, and she wants to be nice to you, is deserving of a Nelson-esque "HA-ha!"
I think it takes a certain very specific kind of personality to take someone's niceness as a slap in the face. I mean...what went wrong there...?
Let's face it, if she had started right out of the gate with something snippy and final you'd be finding a reason to put her in her place there too. Witness the whole "that woman on FB was SO MEEN AND ROOOOOD!" hopping around going on this morning (and yesterday)...because she was firm. No matter what a woman says or does, if it involves rejection (even if you supposedly didn't care...and I am definitely not buying that in the above scenario, I mean give us some credit here, LOL), she somehow deserves nastiness, humiliation and so on. How dare she?
Be firm = what a witch with a B! She DESERVES a verbal slap in the face.
Be kind instead = what a witch with a B! She DESERVES a verbal slap in the face.
IOW: Be female and do something, anything the guy doesn't want, in any regard and with any style = what a witch with a B! She DESERVES a verbal slap in the face.
I really think some of you guys are getting back endlessly and repeatedly at your mommies or something (didn't she hug you enough? I'm sorry) with your continuous diatribes on what a woman "deserves to get" for, well, being herself, no matter what that is, and how. Bunch of lady killers, I'm sure you are...
Sometimes, a nice gesture is not interpreted as nice if you have ulterior motive.
Open a door is nice if thats it. You walk away after that.
Open a door is not nice if you use that as a lead in to approach a girl who doesn't want to be approached.
If a telemarketer call you and ask you , hows your day? Will you consider him/her nice? No, you know it is a lead in to get you stay on the phone in order to sell you something. Same concept.
Now, a separate subject, if you DO want to approach a girl, or even trying make a friend. Being nice is not it and I am not telling you to be rude. I am telling you to be interesting. Talk about something that makes her talk, laugh, blush, whatever.
Sometimes, a nice gesture is not interpreted as nice if you have ulterior motive.
Open a door is nice if thats it. You walk away after that.
Open a door is not nice if you use that as a lead in to approach a girl who doesn't want to be approached.
If a telemarketer call you and ask you , hows your day? Will you consider him/her nice? No, you know it is a lead in to get you stay on the phone in order to sell you something. Same concept.
Now, a separate subject, if you DO want to approach a girl, or even trying make a friend. Being nice is not it and I am not telling you to be rude. I am telling you to be interesting. Talk about something that makes her talk, laugh, blush, whatever.
Just because a man opens a door for a woman doesn't mean he wants to get in her pants.
I'm still not quite getting how someone trying to be kind to you because she doesn't KNOW how you feel/how you'll respond, and she wants to be nice to you, is deserving of a Nelson-esque "HA-ha!"
I think it takes a certain very specific kind of personality to take someone's niceness as a slap in the face. I mean...what went wrong there...?
Let's face it, if she had started right out of the gate with something snippy and final you'd be finding a reason to put her in her place there too. Witness the whole "that woman on FB was SO MEEN AND ROOOOOD!" hopping around going on this morning (and yesterday)...because she was firm. No matter what a woman says or does, if it involves rejection (even if you supposedly didn't care...and I am definitely not buying that in the above scenario, I mean give us some credit here, LOL), she somehow deserves nastiness, humiliation and so on. How dare she?
Be firm = what a witch with a B! She DESERVES a verbal slap in the face.
Be kind instead = what a witch with a B! She DESERVES a verbal slap in the face.
IOW: Be female and do something, anything the guy doesn't want, in any regard and with any style = what a witch with a B! She DESERVES a verbal slap in the face.
I really think some of you guys are getting back endlessly and repeatedly at your mommies or something (didn't she hug you enough? I'm sorry) with your continuous diatribes on what a woman "deserves to get" for, well, being herself, no matter what that is, and how. Bunch of lady killers, I'm sure you are...
Hey my mother and aunts hugged me a lot as a kid . I was raised by women overall, yet I'm not a lady killer lol.
And yet you have posted on this very forum that you didn't like women or want to be around any of them, and you included your mother and sister in that group. Odd! Maybe too much hugging?
And yet you have posted on this very forum that you didn't like women or want to be around any of them, and you included your mother and sister in that group. Odd! Maybe too much hugging?
As in inconsistent? but he has a girlfriend, but womens keep coming up to him to talk and no means no...but he doesn't attempt to talk because all women are so freaking RUDE when they don't want to talk?
hmmmm straight to 49er's Hall of Fame Ignore List for you women's.
I don't even really like hugging anyone, including my mother, that is not an issue.
Is it the actual hug or affection that's the problem?.
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Witness the whole "that woman on FB was SO MEEN AND ROOOOOD!" hopping around going on this morning (and yesterday)...because she was firm. No matter what a woman says or does, if it involves rejection (even if you supposedly didn't care...and I am definitely not buying that in the above scenario, I mean give us some credit here, LOL), she somehow deserves nastiness, humiliation and so on. How dare she?
. I was raised by women overall, yet I'm not a lady killer lol.
