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I knew a guy who had a very bad skin condition on his back due to medication he was taking. He would wear a shirt at the beach, and was very self-conscious about it. Ask your guy about the shirt. If you've been together this long and have an intimate relationship, you should be able to ask about it.
edit: Wait, what? He's self-conscious about his weight? How does a shirt hide weight?
haven't had coffee yet? I didn't expect this question from you.
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I just got back from a beach where 80% of the people should have been pushed back in the ocean! I looked great on that beach!! Haha!!
OP are you like super nice shape? That could do it too.
Kind of but I'm not like a supermodel or anything.
I just texted him a long message basically about how I love him and want him to feel 100% comfortable around me. I alluded to his hesitation with the shower and taking off his shirt. I asked him if there is anything I can do to make him feel comfortable and he said its not me its him. He didn't really go into any details or open up but I said hopefully we can grow together and he just said okay. Idk maybe he's uncomfortable talking about it.
I just texted him a long message basically about how I love him and want him to feel 100% comfortable around me. I asked him if there is anything I can do to make him feel comfortable and he said its not me its him. He didn't really go into any details or open up but I said hopefully we can grow together and he just said okay. Idk maybe he's uncomfortable talking about it.
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It was over text but I don't see how it makes much of a difference because he prefers texting over the phone and I still said what I wanted to.
Some convos about intimacy, most of them I would suggest, are best done in person.
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