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Old 09-22-2016, 10:37 AM
 
Location: The point of no return, er, NorCal
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I'm very small - 5'1" - and my voice is somewhat high-pitched...not squeaky, but people sometimes think I sound like a child say, on the phone. Actually, I just had this experience yesterday, twice, on the phone.

"I AM my mother." LOL. Okay, no, I don't actually say that.

So maybe size does have something to do with it after all, who knows.

I don't know about innocent-looking and I have giant hooters. Maybe people have different definitions of either of these designations, if and when they use them.
*snort* at giant hooters. I don't have those unless they're filled with milk. Lol I wouldn't have guessed you're 5'1"!
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Old 09-22-2016, 11:07 AM
 
Location: New Yawk
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I'm very small - 5'1" - and my voice is somewhat high-pitched...not squeaky, but people sometimes think I sound like a child say, on the phone. Actually, I just had this experience yesterday, twice, on the phone.

"I AM my mother." LOL. Okay, no, I don't actually say that.

So maybe size does have something to do with it after all, who knows.

I don't know about innocent-looking and I have giant hooters. Maybe people have different definitions of either of these designations, if and when they use them.
Same here: 4'10, a decent rack but otherwise lacking in curves, soft voice (except when I really really trying to sound authoritative), wholesome-looking face. Like an overgrown Girl Scout. Who drinks and swears.
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Old 09-22-2016, 11:31 AM
 
Location: PA
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I've found that cute females often have less drama associated with them than "hot" ones. Of course, YMMV...
Totally agree. The hot ones have always been trouble for me.
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Old 09-22-2016, 01:31 PM
 
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Hot: I want to date you and most likely start a relationship with you.

Cute: I view you as a sister and don't and most likely will never want to date you.
I'd actually say this applies more women to men. If a woman says a guy is cute it's often in a friend zoned/nice guy kind of way.

If a man says a woman is cute then he's likely to be attracted to her than if a woman says it about a guy.
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Old 09-22-2016, 02:10 PM
 
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I'd actually say this applies more women to men. If a woman says a guy is cute it's often in a friend zoned/nice guy kind of way.

If a man says a woman is cute then he's likely to be attracted to her than if a woman says it about a guy.
Yes, we've had the guy conversation before on here...I was the odd woman out...when I say a guy is "cute," usually, I'm sitting on my hands not to earn myself a restraining order.
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Old 09-22-2016, 02:11 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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Totally agree. The hot ones have always been trouble for me.
Hot women tend to be more work and harder to satisfy in a relationship. I couldn't see myself with one.
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Old 09-22-2016, 05:24 PM
 
Location: Riverside Ca
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Cute is the chick that is the "it will do" when you can't get the hot one.
Hot is the one the guy chases.


The thing is the cute chicks is who I date. Well when I dated. Why? Because they usually have more substance than any hot chick ever will.
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Old 09-22-2016, 06:21 PM
 
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Cute is the chick that is the "it will do" when you can't get the hot one.
Hot is the one the guy chases.


The thing is the cute chicks is who I date. Well when I dated. Why? Because they usually have more substance than any hot chick ever will.
Actually, isn't it because you are simply incapable of landing the hot one?

Because I mean...re-read your first sentence, above.

She'll "do" for you, just as, apparently, you will "do" for her, I guess as the substitute for the sexy, handsome guy she was unable to get. (You have more substance, though.)

Just trying to work all this out and have your first and second paragraphs make sense. Otherwise, they kind of conflict.
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Old 09-22-2016, 06:42 PM
 
Location: In a place beyond human comprehension
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Actually, isn't it because you are simply incapable of landing the hot one?

Because I mean...re-read your first sentence, above.

She'll "do" for you, just as, apparently, you will "do" for her, I guess as the substitute for the sexy, handsome guy she was unable to get. (You have more substance, though.)

Just trying to work all this out and have your first and second paragraphs make sense. Otherwise, they kind of conflict.
I'm getting that same vibe from a lot of these types of posts.

A woman is an individual just like everyone else. We are not beings from another planet...jeez.....
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Old 09-22-2016, 07:48 PM
 
Location: Cleverly concealed
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I'm reminded of this exchange from the mid-90s sitcom NewsRadio.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z7iU2HFUXaU
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